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10 Ways for Men to Last Longer In Bed

107 Interesting Comments  •  Written By CollegeTimes  •  November 3, 2009
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In the vast world that exists under the covers, perhaps nothing is so misunderstood as premature ejaculation – a condition where certain men have trouble lasting very long in bed. It is the butt of an endless onslaught of jokes and the cause of just as many worries, as millions of guys around the world continue to lose all kinds of natural confidence with every new “enhancement drug” that is released.

According to Wikipedia, the condition is often considered to exist when a man reaches climax before his sexual partner does, in more than 50% of their bedroom encounters. PE has also been described (somewhat erroneously) as occurring if a man reaches climax within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that up to three quarters of men in the world reach climax over 50% of the time within two minutes. All this to say, today most sex therapists simply understand premature ejaculation as occuring whenever a lack of control interferes with the well-being of one or both romantic partners. Wow!

Here’s the point fellas: Nearly all men have “suffered” from some form of poor bedroom performance at some point in their life, if they are sexually active. Lucky for all of us, there are some small, yet quite helpful, tips we can try to improve our love-making skills:

1. Squeeze your willy! (It’s scientific.) Perhaps the most practical tip around. If you squeeze your penis just below the head during bedroom activity, you can significantly reduce blood flow, which is the main cause of over-stimulation. Plus, the head of the penis is the most sensitive part in general, so it all kind of works out. Simply squeeze gently for a good 5-30 seconds (however much time you can spare). Just don’t do it in such a way that, well, gets you off.

2. Think disgusting thoughts. Definitely not practical, but hey, it really works for some guys. Look down and imagine you are sticking it in Quasimodo or something. I don’t know, you decide. Anything that makes you want to throw up and is a complete turn-off… go for it.

3. Cause pain to your body. Okay let’s qualify that tip: cause pain to your body somewhere else besides your shlong! For the record, this is also a good way to pass a polygraph test while lying – and for the same reasons. It distracts your brain to focus on the most urgent matter at hand, which is ALWAYS pain. Biting your tongue is usually a favorite strategy, and probably the easiest to perform while under the sheets.

4. Only go tip deep. Recall Vince Vaughn’s monologue in “The Wedding Crashers” … where he proposes playing “a little game called ‘just the tip’ … just for a second!”… yah, you get the point. This takes some practice to find the angle that still feels good to her, but also gives him a small break from the “deeper” action. Anyway, good luck with your experimentation.

5. Go slower sometimes. Seriously. It’s a simple tip, but it’s one that we all forget when the lights go out. You aren’t in a race! Not only do you not always need to be in “deep” but you also don’t always need to go fast. A little change-up in speed never hurt nobody – and in fact, most girls will probably appreciate a little down time. It becomes a bit of a mental game as the minutes tick onward, so show some self-control and work on your pace.

7. Take some sort of break. Some of you might wonder how Fabio can last for 45 minutes in that latest Jenna Jameson video. Well if you cut out the 25 minutes of slap and tickle in the beginning, and factor out the 5 different drugs he took before the shoot, you’ll notice quite a few camera angle changes. This is because the average porn video is actually filmed across 3 days of shooting! So stop beating yourself up. Fabio’s other trick is that he takes frequent “breaks” whether it be from changing positions, grabbin’ a BJ here and there, and what not. The point is that if you want to last *super* long, you are going to need some regular breaks.

8. Clear the tubes beforehand. If you don’t want to be a minuteman on a big date, or screw up a romantic night with your woman, then it never hurts to unload your gun before you go out, and it usually helps you last longer later on. There is really no better way to illustrate this point than quoting from “There’s Something About Mary”…

Dom: You choke the chicken before any big date, don’t you? Tell me you spank the monkey before any big date. Oh my God, he doesn’t flog the dolphin before a big date. Are you crazy? That’s like going out there with a loaded gun! Of course that’s why you’re nervous. Oh my dear friend, please sit, please. Look, um, after you’ve had sex with a girl, and you’re lying in bed with her, are you nervous? No, you’re not, why?

Ted: Cause I’m tired…

Dom: Wrong! It’s ’cause you ain’t got the baby batter on the brain anymore! Jesus, that stuff will fuck you’re head up! Look, the most honest moment in a man’s life are the few minutes after he’s blown his load – now that is a medical fact. And the reason for it is that you’re no longer trying to get laid, you’re actually… you’re thinking like a girl, and girls love that.

9. Practice flexing your pubococcygeus. This is probably the best kept sex secret in the entire universe. Both men and women have what are commonly referred to as Kegel muscles, named after Dr. Arnold Kegel. These are the muscles that you squeeze when you are trying to stop peeing mid-stream! It’s nearly impossible for most males, because we never practice flexing them. If you can build up strength and control of these muscles, however, not only can you learn to “hold in” your ejaculation for longer, but you can also have larger ejaculations because you will be able to blast more semen out of your system – and farther. Not only so, but rumor has it that some guys have learned to jack themselves off using only their Kegel muscles. Talk about weird shit.

10. If all else fails… drugs. Okay, this is somewhat of a joke as we hope you don’t give up on the above methods. However, if you do finally give in and have tried everything, you might as well give some drugs a go. There are absolutely TONS these days, so do your research first. Some of them merely give you a massive boner and might make it harder for you to last longer – who knows. Others are designed specifically for bigger orgasms or for lasting longer, or both, or neither.

Good luck, you motorboatin’ son of a bitch!

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107 Comments on “10 Ways for Men to Last Longer In Bed”

  • Try taking a shit on her chest before coutus. The smell and sight of your own shit will make you last for days and she will enjoy it too… Trust me!

  • 2 light beers before sex works for me. Don’t over drink or you’ll lose the boner..

    Pull out if you have to ..think about making the bitch come first..

  • Blackman for help

    11 inches and a unforgettable 30 minutes. Will travel. Drop me a line ladies. Discretion is promised.

  • Try a two natural herbs called Yohimbine and horney goat weed. They can both be bought over the counter and they work wonders. The combination of the two will cause longer erections, faster recovery time, and they will also give you energy to stay up later so you won’t fall asleep and leave your partner unsatisfied, they also do not show up on drug tests. The only side effects from these two herbs that I have found were an upset stomach and insomnia for the night that I had taken them. The upset stomach is caused when I took them on an empty stomach. The insomnia was caused by to much of the Yohimbine. I am not a big person I only weigh about 150 so a full pill of Yohimbine is too much for me, so I have to use half of a pill. So depending on your size and metabolic rate you can play around with how much of a dosage you need.

  • tallahassee

    thamk you so much to whoever wrote this article. this has been my only problem but i practiced number nine and it worked. now im fuking awesome. thanks again

  • Helpful Advice

    Ok, honestly ladies, if you want your man to last longer. It’s not so much as lasting longer more like staying uplonger. Simply put, suck him off before hand. He’ll get off quick, then immediately after words jump on him or have him jump on you either way. The feeling is totally different and he’ll stay hard due to this fact (if not he doesnt deserve a d*ck). If you’re into it, try 69 so that he’s getting you ready for when it’s time for him to actually do something for you. My gf doesn’t complain about how long i last normally, but sometimes she wants more than 7 or 8 minutes. That’s how we discovered this. I’ll get mine through oral in 2 or so minutes. Then jump on her (she claims it was the 1st time she’s had an orgasm with guy on top) and I’d stay up for at least 20-30 minutes. Face it guys, if you can’t get a girl off in that time frame…go be a monk. Well I hope this helps you all out.

  • here the trick …. get off then have her suck you hard again and you good 2 go …. but remem it go bouth ways you must return the fav

  • Breathing in and out hour nose helps also and think of food or sports lmfao it helps!!!!!!!

  • 1- pee before sex, pee can really push your semen out.
    2- Bj help a lot, while she is doing it, concentrate your kegel muscle which is like you re tightening your butt, so you do not bust first touch, at some point you should not feel any climax or ejaculation ready to shoot out, you will feel that you re ready to last.
    3- go down on her too, which will prepare the way and put her on the same level as you.
    4- find 3 main hotspots : lick inside of her ears( this is unhealthy but can be crazzzzzzzy good feeling) her breast, and under her breasts which is mainly on the bone, suck softly on it, warning she will go wild.
    5- penetrate slowly: do be too fast you will humiliate yourself, calm down it s not a race, when you have the tiniest feeling you ll ejaculate, stop, kiss her, tell her that you love her, ask her if she is enjoying it so far. or get your d*k out let her grad it and rub it on her clit( she will go wild) meanwhile you re getting it together, and there you go she will bust it before you.

    TELL HER BILLY SENT YA.

  • BlazinJaney1993

    Reading this made me realize i dnt prematurly ejaculte i last about 15 to twenty mins on average 4 my first ejacultion and i can put a few more down b4 i get soft but i was just gunna let my fellow potheads kno bud smoke causes quicker ejaculation due to increased bloodflow and hightened senses of feeling but increased bloodflow can cause a harder erection key word Can not always.(hint thc gets u high by passing blood cells on its way in ur lungs so blow smoke in her vag she probably will queef but it works better than coke u will make her sing after that) while alcohol and opiods can make u last longer but take feeling away. ps kiggles do work i started doing them when i was sixteen and well u read the statistics and i think i exceed them now but i will say if ur not pleasing ur women u just need some more time 2 find out what she likes and how she likes it and i bet that will give u the best results

  • im 17 years old i havnt used any off these tips or taken any drugs and the longest ive lasted is almost 3 hours the shortest is 30 mins its pittyful that you guys have to look this stuff up

  • half paki half Afghan

    I have a problem my gf comes too quick and then her pussy goes all dry and every time I complain she accusing me of fucking other girls thats. Why it takes me very long to come in fact sometimes I have stop it even I am not done really dont know what to do anyone can help please Guys :////

  • lol, i fuck my gf all the time, im 16 and weve been having sex for over 6 months like 5 times a week. I used to last like 2 minutes now i can pound her out for like an hour. If i have a condom on i can shred her for like an hour and a half. Buy the Perfomax condom by durex and youll kill your girl for over 30 minutes no matter how long you last. First time i used it i lasted forever. But make sure shes not on top otherwise youll loose your hard on. You gotta do the work with this magic rubber. Practice makes perfect. Just fuck until you last long.

  • 2. is so ficking wrong, why should the guy have to imagine having sex with quazimodo. the guy has to enjoy sex aswell, it shouldnt be a challenge lol. the guys who wrote this obvioisly are virgins

  • Think and Try

    what an awkward thing…eating but not feeling the taste of it.controlling may work..but if you can feel what you are eating, what is the use? One way…watch pro movies and memorize and see the shots that hit you…your feeling will be burning all the time…

  • Get Off Quicker

    When you’re young and it’ difficult to climax, sometimes it’s caused by low testosterone. My husband is a cop, ex-football player, as hot and as muscular as they come. Rocks my word but he has a hard time getting to the climax. Turns out, he has low testosterone. The Dr. gave him testosterone gel and he rubs it in on his chest every night, (or I do) and MAN, what a difference a getting your testosterone levels in balance make! Go to the doctor and have him check your Testosterone Levels! You’re too young to suffer like this!

  • i dont know that masturbation really works. my bf does it on the regular but still cant hold it for more then a minute when we actually have sex. and im not sure how to bring up the idea of actual foreplay.

  • steam up your penis and put some pepper….then you will reallylast

  • johnnyQwakeup

    Are you serious man? I’ve got the best solution out. get this. right before your girl is ready to cum and you are ready to bust but just can’t get there, have your girl stick a finger covered with tabasco sauce up your ass and rub it in a circular motion. your will blow a huge load in here faster than you can say first down

  • This just bothers me. I’m 18 with a 7″ d*ck. I’ve been the jock all through high school and now the same in college. I’ve recently gotten serious with this one girl and have stopped sleeping around with other girls. With all the other girls, I can make them all orgasm without trying, including my girlfriend. The thing is after I give her 3 orgasms, she can’t go anymore to let me get off. I get close in that time but I just can’t quite reach it. She has tried sucking me before, hand jobs, everything. Nothing seems to work and its irratating. Any suggestions on what I can do?

  • Outlawz99032Otis

    Ladies, there is so much that you can do to make your men last longer but as we all know relationships should be about giving equally. If you man is a fast shooter have hi, knock one out before you commence the ritual. This is to ensure a litlle bit longer staminia. What women fail to notice is that as we boh age certainthings are becoming to repititious. Same position same nioght gown what ever the casual sexy wear is. You ladie need to step it up. Strip for your man one night, invite a girlfriend over to record movies for you. He will be thinking abouthis performance and what she thinks that there woill be more effort on his part oto lkast long if. But she has to be attractive but not mot attractive than you. We all have those friends. do not be afrad of suggesiing toys. Men usually do not disagree becasue then they are in control. Plus, if he fails then you have a back upplan to get yourself off. I understand we men can be selfish but then there are4 those who want to plewase and get ovver excited. So you can definitely look at it as “I’m so F”n” fine I can make him ejaculate in minutes. But fore most ladies get out of the routing and get on line there is a lot out there BDSM f**ting Inser***ns and lots of kink. Surprise your man with a video photo or tablet and tell him that you awant to try that who knows a cetain kink mihgt be the trick. If al alse fail a 1/5 of tequilla never fails.

  • my fiance` is 10 years older than me but he is very physically fit and healthy,when we are doing the foreplay he is very attentive however when we finally get to down to business he is very quick on the draw and we have tried a lot of these different methods i am ready to buy toys but i don’t want him to feel bad or any less of a man so what else can i do? suggestions

  • Wyatt Zackowski

    Another good one is turn the TV on before and while having sex watch the television it will distract your mind.

  • My man last about 10 seconds the first round and about 15 the second round. I am really in love with this guy. I would love to marry him but to think I have to deal with this problem of never being satisfied anymore is a bit much. What is there’s for a woman to do to help the situation

  • I guess I’ll suggest these to my current boyfriend.
    My previous one would take up to 45min to an hour to cum… and now my current one cums super quick and I am mostly not satisfied.. I hope these work.

  • Guys.. did you ever realise that sex is the only fun you can have without laughing???? This of that when fucking and see how long you last!!!

  • neilquagmire

    if the chick is hot, I’ll do anything for her. I’ll be her personal toilet, she can fart in my face, take a shit in my mouth & pee too. Love it!

  • sex is great i wanna get a foreplay by sucking him to death, licking his dick and all the way.. I want him to do the same to me, I want big bulks and buns and big dicks.. usually men with big bulks have small dicks, so i wanna have the same.. btw i am a man too..

  • i jus wanna cum!!!!

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and he just dont last in bed:( we do foreplay and when we do fuck Its amazing while it lasts then he jus busts….i used to not say anything but its gone on for so long i cant take it anymore idk what to do he says that this has never happened to him b4 so it makes me feel like ok doin somethin wrong…when i do give him a bj or handjob to get him off first so we can do it and last longer it never happens….sex is the only thing we argue bout and it makes me feel like shit Cuz he feels like shit plz help i need some advice Cuz i do love him i jus really need a good fuck Im tired off feeling like he would rather geta bj or watch porn and masterbaite than fuck me

  • I wish there was a real cure, 20 years is to long to have this.

  • It’s a fact. At one point or another we all have to deal with PE. It’s nature workings its tricks on us. It’s only recently in human history that men have to focus on pleasuring women. Sadly for much of our history women were simply used and often and because life wasn’t as comfortable as it is nowadays for all kinds of reasons, ejaculating quickly was a practical solution. So it’s a matter of training yourself. No shame in it. Sure some women won’t understand but what’s important for guys is not to compare themselves to the porn they watch. porn stars train themselves to get to that point, and so can you. Other than, practice makes perfect which trains you to control your mind and your arousal.
    The penis is muscle, and most of us simply don’t train it. If you are lifting weights, if you are building stamina running 10 miles, then add 20-30 minutes daily doing kegels, and masturbate focusing on you and your breathing, instead of porn or the girl. It’s that simple.

  • Joseph Carter

    When I first got to college I was stoked on the number of chicks. I’m a stud what can I say and did my best to conquer the ladies. From time to time I thought to myself if I could do something to boost my performance. Promescent was the answer and the chicks don’t even know that I am using something. I recommend it to the all the playas out there who wanna dominate in bed.

  • Elly Nkwama

    Sex before. Marriage is sin! No matter. You last long

  • Satisfied

    Satisfied i jerkoff fast and last 30minutes since i was 15 now im 18 and fucked my girl for 20 minutes i guess masturbating for awhile will help also keep your head clean

  • Some of the tips on here are pretty questionable.. you wanna know how to jump start a girls orgasm so she can finish about the same time you do?.. Deffinitely foreplay before hand gets me in the mood and gets me really excited for his d*ck. There’s a point in foreplay where the outside is so stimulated that the inside actually craves for his d*ck. so if you get her excited enough, by the time you put it in, it’s like an explosion if your well enough edowed, which my boyfriend is (: Another great tip that i saw on here is letting the girl get on top and rocking her back in forth while you’re deep.. that is deffintely correct & that’s how i got my first orgasm. it’s not all about the “g spot” on the inside, it also has everything to do with the outside.. However i’ve found it easier with the guy on top and he’s deep inside and pretty much laying his body on mine and rocking up an down.. when done right, it’s a sealed deal for her orgasm. You’re giving her that deep inside stimulation and rubbing against the outside which is sure to make her cum quick, and after that.. you’re all set to go. Another foreplay tip if you’re both into making her finish before you actually have sex.. DO IT! make her finish and then immediately put your d*ck inside.. i’ve litterally came again and again seconds after finishing with foreplay. it is an indescribable feeling. And most deffinitely take it slow sometimes. as much as i love to be pounded out when it’s hot and heavy, i also enjoy lots of deep kissing and slow movements. that’s sure enough to get her going too.. I hope this helps some of you guys looking for ways to please your girl & deffinitely BE SAFE.

  • Just masturbate i jerk offf fast and i last like 30 minutes ps im 13

  • Also switching positions every now and then and letting her ride me to give me a little break worked great, or letting her give me a bj helped. I feel i was less focused on cumming and more about what was happening.

  • i just recently lasted about an hour to the thanks of alcohol, the trick is not to drink too much or else you might have a problem getting an erection (whiskey dick).

  • thanks,with these ways listed above, i am the best partner.

  • I like crepes

    Fuck a grapefruit, the acid burning your penis will help you last longer

  • Anonymous

    Hi i bumped into this page, and wanted to share my thoughts: my man lasts an hour without any drug, lotions or potions, we are both 40, hes acsually better now than when we were younger, he was my first at 14, we lost touch for 25 years and recently reconnected…and sex is great, one hour of straight f*cking not including foreplay…after 15, 20 minutes he ready for round 2…I get off so many times so many diffrent ways…and the best part is his wife has to deal with the b*llshit, she pisses him off and he comes and f*ck the hell out of me….I wouldnt change him for the world

  • Hole in the sky

    Drink 3 beers or so before you have sex and you’ll last longer. Works for me lol

  • To tired of being pissed off

    3 minutes later for your new post n this is how it’s broken down…30 secs to wake him, 30 secs to remove his clothes,30 secs to get him hard, 30 secs to ride him, 10 secs for him to cum, 10 secs to get off of him, 10 secs to yell at him, 15 secs to get back online and 15 secs to complain again. Smh lol I am so sorry for your wasted time. Lol

  • Ive been trying the kegals for awhile an ithere pretty strong just idk how to use them during sex do u just flex them it seems to make me wanna come faster? Any help? An i also heard masturbation to quickly can cause u to PE to

  • latina-phulbani

    do slowly without great punches will simply wok last long.also unfill the tank before the battle is a admirable point. thanks

  • Don’t be surprise!sometimes,i last 2hrs afta drinking a lil dry gin called calypso or regal.if i dnt take it;i cn last 20minutes.Advice:Dnt focus ur mind wen u are banging her.secondly,pulse 4 little while and remove ur nimrod and insert it again.thats d secret guys.

  • I fucked a block of cheese and I may have got her pregnant, WHAT DO????

  • tired of being pissed off

    See, SEE! What the fu*k did i just say??!!??!!

  • tired of being pissed off

    So tired of being pissed off after 10 seconds. Im about to wake him up and ride him but i guarantee ill just be unsatisfied once agin…. ill let u know…

  • unhappy girl

    I need a man to last longer

  • santiago

    pls some one help me out here my relationship is crashing i need hlp pneumonia method to astir longer on bed

  • Here is a women point of view. As much as you guys would like to think that your studs 85 percent of the time your not. Im 39 years old and married and the sex just flat out sucks. Last about 2 seconds. I understand all the forplay been there done that but some times a women just wants to get laid. When it takes longer to get your underwear off theres a prob. I have made him go to the docs everything theres nothing wrong. So how can a man be so selfish. Sick of crying my self to sleep.

  • Lipololol

    I am a bondage gimp man and my girlfriend is a penguin any advice to make my tentacles last longer? Btw I’m 7 years old. Thanks!

  • pus**y blaster

    if ur man dosnt satisfy u….then fuck him…..heez nt a man….

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  • Immortalise skillz

    How i fit mke my dick big 2 4k 20 years n above girlz

  • babyfacedsavage

    My man makes me come by just looking at him. So I’m assuming It’s because of my sexual attraction to him and plus I know what he’s capable of. But here’s a tip that helped me in the past. Have your man eat you until you feel your climax coming. Then stop him immediately and have him stick it in and go for it. It worked like a charm every time previously for me.

  • babyfacedsavage

    My man makes me fun by just looking at him so I’m assuming that its because of my sexual attraction and what i know he’s capable of. But here is a tip hat helped me in the past. Have your man eat u until you feel ur climax comin then stop him and have him immediately stick it in and go for it. It worked like a charm every time previously for me.

  • Does No.8 actually work?

  • kaddu ashe

    well, men were made to be brave but nothing is more stronger than being in bed with the person you do love. i have liked the comments and i do thank you

  • Elvis orup

    Tanks 4 d tips. I‘m goin to put to test tonite.

  • Me n my husband have tried all of this and over the counter drugs but it just don’t seem to help him last longer.. The foreplay is great and we have several toys but I would rather it be him inside me then the toy but he never last more than 1 min. And ideas he can’t take n of the sex pills anymore due to his job the do drug test n the pills show up in them

  • Last Long and Prosper

    It’s easy for guys to last longer in bed with Deferol capsules. Deferol lets the fun last longer for everybody and no numbing.

  • Re. topdriphot

    FUK A REAL MAN!! Like me ill.last till ur PUSSY DRY!!

  • topdrophot

    My bf his jus not sattisfying me at all in bed I want a good fuck! But I do enjoy the foreplay but how do I get him to last??

  • topdrophot

    Tanks guys for all the comments I’ve read some usefull tips but yeah tanks guys

  • not a happy gf

    I have 6 months having sex with my bf. He is the first guy in my life but I haven’t reach an orgasm …what should I do?

  • just get your mind off the shit when do it..pretnd as if diaz no one wit u, it does magic 4 me

  • PLS I CANT LAST LONG I NEED DRUGS NAME

    It pains wen i cant satisfy my gal

  • Try thinking of a complicated task that you know and like well. Then go over the task in your mind. Works great for me. I tie fishing knots.lol

  • I got a girl Im realy in to that wants me to stay over night When her dad goes outa town Next week i need help now i last 6 mins on average. Does smokein green realy help?

  • tofrustwife

    Hey have your man jack off a couple times before you have sex or jack him off. Or you could always get you a toy and have him use it on you. That would do 2 things it would please you and make him want to please you better than the toy would. If that doesnt work make him go slow and stop wen he feels the ejaculation coming on and trust me he can feel it and play with yourself the hole time.

  • would love to the frustraited wife and hi in a crazy wild 3some

  • Yall too funny!

  • Frustrated wife I will fu*k the sh*t out of you

  • Eat shit

  • frustrated wife

    i need help, my husband lasts like 30 seconds in bed we have been married for six months i have never been satisfied after sex ever, dont know what to do. Please help

  • Before having sex go down on her make her aquart and then fuck fuck her brains out works ever time from me (xiaco)

  • Number 2 is not relevant in this town, Quasimodo would look like Jenna Haze compared to some of the swamp donkeys round here.

  • This works like magic.

  • id say keep your mind off it while your doing it, it helps a lot for me.

  • Pop an adderall before you go to town. Works wonders

  • You are all pussies.

  • young antidote

    Ive always noticed that taking painkillers, xanax, or alcohol helps last longer. i believe it is because the painkillers make you kind of numb, which doesnt it make it feel that great, but still good. xanax and alcohol slows down your thoughts which also help you last longer. ive pounded for a good 30minutes-1 hour on lortabs ^^. i love them, wish i had them everytime i was fucking!

  • smoke a blunt after drinking you’ll never stop even if u just smoke you will last longer. no idea y

  • Ephedrine and vodka in combination used to work great but I don’t drink anymore and ephedrine is off the market. Anyone ever tried a c*ck ring? Was curious if they work.

  • I lasted an hour and a half without using any durgs or whatever (im 16) well thats my record but dman sometimes it takes 45 seconds im goin crazy!

  • Hi,
    1. Get the girl on the top and let her play.
    2. Do not think too much about sex.
    3. Do not let the girl touch the sex at the begiing.
    4. But when it is about to come let squeees the testicanls (2balls) heavily till you get ache.
    5 let her bit you.

  • My girlfriend is so smokin’ hot…I wasn’t able to last more than 2 minutes with my eyes open. A good friend told me his secret for lasting longer in bed is Deferol capsules since it controls premature ejaculation. Deferol definitely works for me too and it helps me go longer. Now, It’s easy to satisfy her with my eyes open and the lights on.

  • i hink number 10 is all wrong the drug to give a go has to be, hands down marijuana. you can last as long as you want and sex feels so much better and you get better control. plus its healthy complete non-harmful and natural unlike all those pills your taking which are made up of bunch of chemicals that could be harmful and some lead to some serious health defects

  • don’t worry some day it will gradually get better, besides you can always rest and go at it again later. Back in my day the women i was in lust with was taught to keep herself locked , anyway for me just rubbing up against her would cause an ejaculation, but as time passed and the more sex we had the less of a problem premature ejaculation became. No one back then knew about oral sex , I learned about it later with a younger ,horny women who would respond with many orgasms prior to penetration. But alas as you age your desire diminishes and you need more stimulation to get off. So don’t worry take the way it is for what it is and explain to your mate how excited you get and that you need to spend more time with her to get it right and to love her whole body and practice oral sex on her, she will probably enjoy every moment and so will you.Be safe!

  • ballu d great

    you shuld b start from up, u asked her would u like long just come up to me i m sure she trough 7time water.

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  • try to use different sex positions,this will delay a man.also when you ar about to ejaculate,just try to think of something weird. zambia

  • To make a girl climax. Works everytime have her on top grab her hips and rock her back and fort. While she is all the way down. I learned that it hits the clitorus at the same time. She will climax in less than one minute. I have never met one that could resist it. I even had one that never had a orgasm and it work for her to.

  • pancho alvarao

    saco con el dedo , porque con la verga ya no puedo

  • explanation should be more easier

  • Joaquin Guzman Loera

    Estan pendejos todos aqui a la verga ponganse cocaina en la punta de la verga y que la mujer se la unte en toda la cabeza del pito y duraran minimo dos horas sin pedo saludos desde Colombia

  • All of my college boyfriends take Deferol, a non-prescription climax control supplement for men so they last longer in bed. They know that longer sex is better sex, and better sex means more sex. I won’t tolerate guys that leave the party too soon. Deferol works and guys can buy Deferol online at Walgreens.com and CVS.com. Your girlfriends and you will appreciate this climax control capsule. Deferol works without numbing.

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  • Joshua@men last longer

    Don’t panic! Tοο many people аrе being pushed over thе edge, rіɡht tο ejaculation, bесаυѕе thеу mentally bеɡіn tο panic whеn thеу feel close tο orgasm.

  • manuelgaby

    Use masturbation as a way to train yourself to last longer before you ejaculate. Bring yourself to the edge of ejaculation – then exercise your will-power and stop! Do this with dedication and focus, so that you don’t tip over into ejaculation.

  • Thanks for the tips, another good tip that never fails to deliver is to give her oral sex before penetration, you are guaranteed to give her multiple orgasms with this one.

  • slobonmynob

    thanks for the tip now if only i can get my penis to stay hard and how to make it bigger

  • 6. Get a long slow bj first whilst giving cunnilingus. :)

  • I don’t know if anyone noticed, but there is no 6.

  • Much as I hate to say it, the main problem is as WildWendy said: men look at sex as nothing more than stress relief and instant gratification. It’s also the main reason for sexual dissatisfaction among women. If guys actually took the time for actual foreplay, not only would they notice their woman being more responsive and active (and more open-minded to suggestions), they’d also learn that by getting a woman all hot and bothered before hand (that doesn’t mean just getting her wet enough to stick it in), it makes it easier for her to come through intercourse. With that in mind, it doesn’t really matter overmuch how quick you blow your load (unless you blow it the moment you put it in).

    On the other hand, though, porn and romance movies/novels have screwed things up to no end. Through porn, men have been conditioned to believe that a woman wants an 8″ (or bigger) dick plowing into her like a jackhammer for nearly an hour and that a woman is open to anything. Through romance movies/novels, women have been conditioned to believe that sex consists of love and tenderness (which it can, but it’s not a requirement), as well as hours of sex with that same 8″ dick that brings her to an earth-shattering orgasm and only THEN does the man come. This is so disproportionate to real life that it’s no wonder men look at sex as a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am affair while being secretly disappointed because they’re not as big as the guys in porn while women are openly disappointed with the lack of pleasure, size, their general distaste for sex (the rare sex loving woman notwithstanding).

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