10 Red Flags When Meeting Girls
1. Tattoos – No, there are no exceptions. Tattoos are one of those things that look hot on a small minority of drop-dead gorgeous movie stars like Angelina Jolie, but in real life, less than 1% of women can actually pull it off in any form. (Variations include girls that have watched way too many Evanescence music videos, girls that had an ex-boyfriend die in a surfing accident and have branded his name onto their wrist, hipster bitches, white trash skanks, wannabe porn stars, etc.)
2. Daddy Issues – This rears its head in all sorts of ways, so proceed with caution. Unfortunately, this is often a sad result of modern-day divorce statistics. (Variations include super clingy and/or insecure girls who tend to think every disagreement leads to someone being abandoned in a dumpster, girls that are desperate for attention from any and every male figure, girls who turn into femi-bitches a.k.a. femi-nazis at any sign of conflict, etc.)
3. Make-up Extremities – This should go without saying, but the amount of males who ignore this one is absolutely astounding. More to the point, be wary of any girl who has obviously spent hours putting on “her face” before she went outside, or otherwise seems to have a quarter-inch of foundation on her face. (An easy sign is how large her purse is… the larger the purse, the more the makeup!) At the same time, be wary of girls who are staunchly opposed to wearing make-up, or shaving, or other such politically-driven clichés.
4. Too Many Guy Friends – To be honest, this one is related sometimes to #2, but sometimes not. This should be an automatic HUGE red flag. Avoid any girl with an uncanny amount of “guy friends” whether it be online social networks, in real life, or whatever. She’s either a total whore, has major daddy issues, has a general lack of social etiquette and/or discretion, or doesn’t seem to impress other females as being a worthwhile person.
5. Obsessed with Online Social Networks – This isn’t going away any time soon, so its worth including. Watch out for women that seem overly obsessed with websites like Facebook, MySpace, Match.com, dating websites, etc. They are either super bored, super narcissistic, super insecure, super bitchy, super desperate, or total whores. Whichever it is, stay the hell away.
6. Extremely “Anti-Trendy” – This speaks to the general direction that mankind as a whole has been headed for the last few decades, but it deserves a mention anyway. Unless you want a girl with a ton of baggage or who will end up annoying the s**t out of you later on in life, then avoid the ladies who are out to “prove a point” every chance they get. (Variations include girls who refuse to drink Starbucks coffee because its too corporate, girls who seem to have 250 indie bands memorized when you ask them what music they like, girls who think marriage is “totally unnecessary… you know!?”, and all that disgusting jazz.
7. Overly Forward – Again, this should be obvious to most men, but alas, most fellas do their thinking with the wrong head. The fact that a girl *confidently* walks up to you and starts jabbering like crazy doesn’t necessary mean that she’s slutty (more likely, she’s just a total wackjob), but let’s be honest, there aren’t too many dudes out there who warrant such easy attention from las chicas, except maybe Jack Bauer. Unless she shows at least a little bit of reserve, or at the very minimum, a bit of playfulness, then for the love of Christ, give it a second thought before you dive in.
8. Hangs Out Quite Often At Bars, Clubs, Etc – Slutty, crazy, or depressed… with likely daddy issues. Take your pick. As a general rule of thumb, you shouldn’t really be picking out a wife at a bar. If you’re into one night stands, then go for it, but at least choose a girl who showed up with some of her other girl-friends.
9. Extremely Clueless – Doesn’t know who the Vice President is? Red flag. Doesn’t know about that massive earthquake that happened in Haiti last week? Red flag. Doesn’t care to educate herself after her stupidity is pointed out? Red flag. Thinks it’s attractive to be stupid or pretend that she’s stupid? Red flag. Are you getting the point yet?…
10. Easily Offended, Extremely Poubty, Etc – In short, avoid girls who can’t take a joke, don’t laugh much, love to act offended about nearly everything as some bizarre attempt at proving they are “enlightened”, or who actually do get offended or hurt by random bullshit all the time. Also, avoid girls who seem to have a different reaction each time to the same stimuli (“Wanna grab dinner?” … “Don’t talk to me!”), or who seem addicted to poubting, or who generally don’t seem to have a handle on their emotional reactions. Yah, that sure helps to narrow it down, huh? :P
Honorable mention: Overly Athletic – Desires nothing more than to constantly attempt to show you up mountain climbing or weight-lifting? Run, run, as fast as you can, away from this type of female. She probably had some bitter encounter with a cop one day and is now a questionable lesbian.
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In my experience as a good looking 34 year old male with a decent amount of experience in dating…..
This article could not be closer to the TRUTH.
Any “woman” who comes on here claiming it’s false is just upset you called them out.
Women constantly bash men, especially at their “girls nights” etc but when a guy calls a spade a spade, he gets s**t?
Grow up girls. Use your brain. Think for yourselves. Be yourself.
Quit watching that trashy rap, quit going to clubs, quit hanging out with guys who pants are lower than their bank accounts, real cultured gentlemen do not date sluts.
Period.
Girls that have Tattoos are a total mess to begin with.
Happy April Fails Day!
Stopped reading after 25%. The 90’s were the last days of being human. After mass distribution of cell phones and DVD players, the world grew with less etiquette, morals, and no shame. A feeling of being superficial among millennials, whose parents spoiled their special little flower kids with no common sense or communication skills.
A fifth-grader called Francis tells the gentle-eyed psychiatrist he was warned “about something that’s going to happen,” and that “pollution mustn’t be”. Eleven-year-old says; “I think they want people to know that we’re actually making harm on this world and we mustn’t get too technologed.” Zimbabwe 1994.
The step father would abuse his son by fondeling his son’s penis and sometimes getting agressive by pinching the penis.
Happy April Fails Day!
Stopped reading after 25%. The 90’s were the last days of being human. After mass distribution of cell phones and DVD players, the world grew with less etiquette, morals, and no shame. A feeling of being superficial among millennials, whose parents spoiled their special little flower kids with no common sense or communication skills.
A fifth-grader called Francis tells the gentle-eyed psychiatrist he was warned “about something that’s going to happen,” and that “pollution mustn’t be”. Eleven-year-old says; “I think they want people to know that we’re actually making harm on this world and we mustn’t get too technologed.” Zimbabwe 1994.
The step father would abuse his son by fondeling his son’s penis and sometimes getting agressive by pinching the penis.
Stopped reading after 25%. The 90’s were the last days of being human. After mass distribution of cell phones and DVD players, the world grew with less etiquette, morals, and no shame. A feeling of being superficial among millennials, whose parents spoiled their special little flower like kids with no common sense or communication skills.
A fifth-grader called Francis tells the gentle-eyed psychiatrist he was warned “about something that’s going to happen,” and that “pollution mustn’t be”. Eleven-year-old says; “I think they want people to know that we’re actually making harm on this world and we mustn’t get too technologed.”
The step father would abuse his son by fondeling his son’s penis and sometimes getting agressive by pinching the penis.
Take the stick out your ass buddy.
Really? what a strange article, your source of information is from …? Ok lets look at this, what you write could be true (feels like some of these conclusions may be formed from personal experiences?) S**t loads of interaction goes on before people get it on, and sub-conciously we are assessing someone’s compatibility all the time. My counter argument would be; that a man engaging with an emotionally damaged woman is a rescuer. If you’re familiar with the drama triangle you’ll know rescuers are in fact controlling, they want to ‘fix’ the broken to meet their standards, implying they know what’s best for the other person. There in itself lie a whole host of issues possibly stemming back to childhood. So, for future reference, lets not write one sided sweeping statemented articles. We’ve ALL got issues, and guess what just because one person’s issues don’t fit with you, they will with someone else. Next time you have an encounter with a ‘psycho’ woman and think, ‘here we go again’ look back at the times it’s happened before and ask yourself, whose the common denominator!
1) Is it possible that he’s actually on the right track? 10 years of my own personal experience with women mirrors what he has written here.
2) Is it possible you are a woman?
This guy seems like he’s fun to hang out with and has a lot of friends.
Let’s see. I am an engineer, so I know lots of men. MS degree. Grew up in Russia, lived in US for 14 years. Have huge dragon tattoo on my back. Had daddy issues – father was an alcholic, who drove family crazy until mom kicked him out. Issues were gone with age. I am intending to stay single for the rest of my life for the following reasons – 1) most people annoy me – both males and females; 2) I worked too hard for my money to waste it with some guy; 3) I have more freedom being single; 4) I have less housework being single; 5) I have less problems being single; 6) I have 0 percent chance of contracting STD; 7) I enjoy quiet mornings with coffee; 8) I like my job and work a lot; 9) at any point of my life I can move anywhere on the planet and don’t have to explain myself. So maybe the author is on a spot – don’t date anyone like me. ;)
you are the exception…not the rule, love
You can make up whatever lies you need to feel better about yourself, girlie. You’re still a genetic dead end.
PS: “Have huge dragon tattoo on my back.” HOW ORIGINAL!! You must be so non-conformist and edgy, lmfao.
The tattoos thing is more of your opinion. I know many women who look amazing covered in tattoos (and I’m bi so I get a say in this)
I also have a lot of male friends. That’s it, they are friends and that doesn’t make me a whore because I’ve never had relations with about 99% of them. and don’t cause issues to my romantic relationships. I also have plenty of female friends.
And hanging out in bars and clubs, maybe I like to go out? That doesn’t make me slutty or crazy and i definetly don’t have daddy issues. As long as I’m not hung over at work and I get my school work done then I’m good.
So I know its a general list but.. You should try some other points. Like if they wear a mini skirt and a tube top in 10degree F weather or if they are always on thier phone or something. Other than those I agree with you.
This works for men of any age about women of all ages. Take it from someone who is really old. Everything you said is true. I am 65 and lived through so many generations it isn’t even funny. The strange thing is the basics of life never change, regardless of social conditions. Men will always be men and have the same inborn genetics that Adam had. We want a woman that respects herself and builds us up. This country has gone through so many changes since I grew up in the 50’s and 60’s, but men haven’t. Styles change but life doesn’t. No man wants to have a permanent relationship with someone that isn’t ready to make him the only man in her life. If a woman has too much baggage, you are better off alone. As for tattoos, when I was growing up, men from the wars had tattoos and they look like crap after your skin sags. A woman or a man that will permanently alter their body is going to have other issues. I just got out of a semi long term relationship with a woman with men friends. It is just her way of trying to build up her self esteem.
Who the hell wrote this s**t? College times? haha! Dude sounds more like 1800’s times. Who the hell do you think you are telling women how to act? Have you been in their shoes? How about you climb down from your pedestal because god forbid you be here with the rest of use normal flawed people right?
“Slutty, crazy, or depressed… with likely daddy issues. Take your pick.” (Oh sorry didn’t know people chose the life they would live, i didnt know people could chose their parents)
“She probably had some bitter encounter with a cop one day and is now a questionable lesbian.” (what does this even mean?)
“She’s either a total whore, has major daddy issues, has a general lack of social etiquette and/or discretion, or doesn’t seem to impress other females as being a worthwhile person.” (Total whore? huh? how does having alot of guy friends make you a whore? and hows does it make you lack social etiquette? please explain, i would love to hear this)
Dude this is soooooo on the money. Lmfao.. I love to say it, but every chick in Pinellas County FL is either some, or all of the above. Lmfao. No Bull. either.. The Guys to. I swear, I live in the land of the fruit cakes.Bald Bic’ed head pricks in there 30’s and 40’s also. Cheap gas station shades, the whole shmeal! If there is an idiot like this or beyond there here, in a massive prick fashion. Definitely. The chicks and dudes love scrubs like this. Not to mention lots of drugs in there diet. They reproduce like mice or rabbits or some junk to. God I wish i was not here any more. Your all so lucky. If you ever see Pinellas County FL. RUN. Run like the wind me boy! And never look back. Like a ball with gas.. Good Day And God Speed. And if my other comment posted i messed it up i was on my phone tons of typo sorry about that. LOL.
Dude this is sooooo on the money. Lmfao… I hate to say it but every cjick in pinellas county FL is either some or all of the above. Lmfao.. No bull either.. the guys to. I live in the land of the fruit cakes. Bald bicked head pricks in there 40`s and 30`s every where to.. If there is an idiot like this and beyond. There here in a massive prick fasion, definately. The chick and dudes lives scrubs like this. They reproduce like mice or rabbits even. Gid i wish i wasn`t here any more. Your all so lucky. If you ever see Pinellas County FL Run. Run Like the wind. And never look back. Good day. And God Speed..
Lived to a # 2 for 10 years. I wished I had read that before. I believe that I am the one who invented Nazi-B***h when I broke off with her. She had men’s and father issues that became apparent only with time. But all the warning signs were there but since she was a looker and I considered myself average at that time I was totally blind. She gave me a son who is now old enough to have flee the infected nest and became my son after the longest time without seeing him.
So, I would do it all over again because of the great son that I now have in my life. Now I’m married to a doctor and we sat down and spoke about wants and needs during a whole weekend before taking any steps. Have been happily married now for 13 years !!!
By any means avoid moody girls. Avoid those who are depressed all the times. And those who are sarcastic
A woman has to be a total moron to want to look like a guy . Getting tattoos is so masculine. I am a guy and think they are stupid on men too, but 100 fold stupid on women. They do help me distinguish who the sluts are for my one night stands.
1, 3 , 4 and 10 got me!!!! ok im not saying tattoos are bad but when she gets them for “free” and you know what free is lol then well she a f’in slut!!!!!!!!!!!
ok these are the red flags, proceed at your own peril. 2, 4, 5 got me LOL. I’m glad i’m over that circus ! Good article
F**k, I should of read this earlier!! #4 got me!!! Girl has too many dude friends, like no girl friends. I should of picked up on the signs, I just wanted to not believe my better judgement. I caught feelings for her, bad move, O well.
Not to ran on anyone’s parade but 1 in every 4 women has suffered from some come kind of abuse and/or trama thru out their life that makes them some what less than perfect. Not that that’s an excuse for the total psycho’s out there, but men aren’t exactly a image of perfection either. There’s not enuff time to list the things that make guys just as fucked if not more so. But the fact that you would think that everything you wrote rings true says that you either need to have a truthful convo with your mom or sister about your view point.
Weather men act like this or not is has nothing to do with the subject.
Woman, and men alike who are getting defensive and warping the subject need to see a Doctor for a mental illness check up.
It stands pretty clear that woman “keep on topic people” who act like this have some psychological
damage.
I also agree with the above, some of the people posting really need to step back, and stop inventing their own reality.
Arrogance and confidence are two totally different things, and allot of the people responding, are arrogant and ignorant simply looking to project their own problems on others.
And on the internet…
It’s absolutely silly, that alone should display the intelligence level of some of the posters here, and more so WHY they’re being defensive.. it’s most likely because they act in this way which is uncivilized and senseless, and are ignorant to why they are bad things to begin with.
I think whoever wrote this is right on the ball.
The only people who would deny this sort of logic, are people that actually do the retarded things listed in the above mentioned list.
People can argue it all they want, but it’s basic psychology and the people that act in the above ways have mental issues.
Also… who argues over silly stuff like this online?
People really need to get a life lol
Drama Whores!!!
Thank god my wife is not like half the woman responding to this on the mark list lol
Truly a sign of the times.
^ feminst pigggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
Most pathetic article I have ever come across. Yep, follows all these rules boys, and end up alone in your bedroom wanking over photos of women you’ll never have, cause they’ll sure as hell be smart enough to stay away from pigs like you.
what the hell is this dude
This article is so disgustingly sexist. I imagine you’d like to go back to the forties and pick a woman who will listen to your every command and keep your home tidy while you work for minimum wage at your pathetic factory job. Maybe you’ll even get to call her your property. Grow up a*****e.
Tattoos scream “I’m insecure” nothing is more beautiful then a woman’s naked body. Overweight or skinny its still sexy. Tattoos just give girls attention they crave hence they get more and more. Most can’t stop at one. Sad.
I’ll still date a tattooed girl but its not attractive and a turnoff.
Totally 100% agree.
Coming from girls that fit that criteria…..
This would be a lot funnier if it didn’t teach males lessons in misogyny. Stop calling us whores and sluts, it’s degrading and not conducive to finding a worthwhile partner. Also, there’s nothing wrong with being athletic. Having a toned physique does not make anyone a lesbian, it makes them disciplined in diet and exercise. Wouldn’t another red flag that’s contrary to this say “don’t go after fatties because they’re obsessed with food and lazy” ? Who the f**k wrote this, a 17 year old high school senior?
funny as hell…loved it and yes imma girl
idk about the open pores thing some girls just like to look better its a lot of pressure on us sometimes because of guys and society
I was always natural of course that like to look goid false eye lashes or eyeliner at the least but its all about personality guys no matter how u look no body wants to be around a sourr puss not even the most attractive of girls they want personality
this is factual I know all of these traits personally and the background all or these girls and they fit the description to they tee that’s why were not friends because they live in a lie and I’m to true I’m the one who gets a long with anyone who has a personalityy snd who is real and msny of these girls dnt have a personality because there to focus on self image and personal issues that I wasn’t aware of at those times just thought they were boring and almost got caught us in it because those were the girls I grew up eith and had to break them out of there shell and one would always get mad at me becsuse I was free spirited had a bf I wonder if I was thr ugly girl or hsd a diffrent upbringing then them but I am rhe girl who went to the bar a couple of times by myself because I was bored andahsd to get out the house
Sir, I believe you just kicked a hornet nest, and a lot of angry slam-pigs just came out.
I honestly think it’s hilarious. I throw up a few up a few red flags myself, hit the hills, boys!
As for the above comments of the butthurt females who are freaking out because they fall into some, most, or all the above catagories, it’s the internet, bro. It’s also just an opinion. Many people agree on this forum, but elsewhere many would disagree. Plus, if this is untrue of you, why you trippinnnn? Simply state who you are, which point applies to you, and why it’s wrong, IN YOUR OPINION. Not everyone will think you’re beautiful, or awesome. That’s life, hunny.
My red flags, I’ve got tattoos, and plan to get more. I wish my daddy loved me more. I don’t fall onto the makeup catagory actually, I spend ten minutes on my makeup max. I’m not obsessed with social networks, I have a lot of friends out of country so I do get on to speak to them. Anti-trendy? I’m a pin up girl so I’m not sure if that’s “anti-trendy” My male and female friends are pretty even. I don’t drink so I don’t hang out in bars, and I’m too damn busy for clubs. I’m not osverly forward, but I do have confidence. I’m pretty intelligent, but I have no idea who the VP is. I’m notinto politics, I don’t watch the news, and I honestly don’t care to know. I’m not easily offended, it takes a lot to upset me. And lastly! I am not very athletic. I work out three times a week, and I love to go out and play sports but I am awful at it! I’ll talk game and say I can own the cute boy I’m flirting with, but it won’t happen. If he wants t game then I can own him at that, but I’m best at gaming with a controller, not a ball. ‘Nuff said.
I think this article got it spot on for the most part. People can rationalize to themselves and disagree all they want but I speak from experience when I say that in every bad relationship I have had the girl fit most if not all of these red flags. If you ever want a girl who is marriage material she is going to have to be the more reserved and conservative type which is something that is getting increasingly harder to find these days which is why divorce rates are soaring through the roof.
i like it nd so wut u spelled pout wrong, its not the worse thing …. i think u hit a soft spot ….. sum ppl had 2 face the fact they fit the red flag list. even i made the list for 1 of them. because i am very straight forward … but 1 out of 10 ain’t bad
This is probably the most judgmental article I have read. Talk about judging a book by its cover. Just because a girl has tattoos or likes to be independent (as you say, “Anti-Trendy”) doesn’t mean she isn’t a good person, or that you should stay away from her. These things are just her way of expressing herself, and shouldn’t be shown as things that make you stay away from her.
This is probably the most judgmental article I have read. Talk about judging a book by its cover. Just because a girl has tattoos or likes to be independent (as you say, “Anti-Trendy”) doesn’t mean she isn’t a good person, or that you should stay away from her. These things are just her way of expressing herself, and shouldn’t be shown as things that make you stay away from her.
And guys can be like this too I might add. So girls do the same. God Bless Yall and remember: Jesus loves all
I’m just going to say this. This is valuable info. I admit. I myself thought the article was unjust, and biased and the writer was being unfair to some women. But as I read through some of the explainations and reread it again throughly, these are very critical points we need to look out for. These were not to belittle or insult women in any way. The writer was simply telling us to watch out for these kind of girls. Not all girls are like this, but if you meet a girl like this: heed the warnings, it can save you in the end.
Why is it that a girl u like so much used to break the heart of a young man,dat give her the whole of his heart.secondly boy u should not get upset with a makeup of a young girl because some has dirty inner insult dat is bad .
Anyone who thinks this article is stupid is most likely ignorant. The author isn’t bashing women and probably doesn’t hate women. It’s just signs to be cautious of. If the article offends you then you probably fall into the catetgory, or just ignorant. lol society fails
I agree the stupidest article…..
This guy… seems like he hates women. Red Flag: He probably has daddy issues.
Geeze dude….you fucking suck. RED FLAG: insecure dueshbag who has obviously been hurt by attractive women and feels the need to channel his pain through a mean article. OR you’re about as deep as a damn puddle in which no ones going to like you anyways. I would focus on finding ANY women to talk to you instead of limiting yourself (for your standards) to 2% of the population.
i cant believe someone wrote this s**t! i have a tattoo, i have a few guy friends, i have a good relationship with my family (yes, including my father), i’m confident in myself, and i am athletic…and according to you that makes me what…a slut? psychotic? well, screw you then is all i can say. this is the most prejudical article against women that i have ever read! you think you can read what type of person a woman is just through these overgeneralized, external characteristics or verbal comments? hahaha…well plenty of us girls know how to spot a misogynistic a*****e when we see one, and dude..you’re it. oh, by the way, there is no “b” in “pouty” dumbass.
I don’t think I have bookmarked an article this brilliant in quite some time! Thank you so much for telling it straight with no BS. I just got done dating a girl with most of these issues and, had I read this first, I probably could have avoided a huge time suck. I will print this out and staple it to the dashboard in front of the passenger seat in my car. That way, future dates will understand why they are being dropped off early at a cab stand.
Whoever you are, please writing articles that save lives.
So basically this article says to run away from every girl on campus. In college every girl I knew fit into one of these categories. If I ran from all of them I would have had no sex. Let’s face it women have gone to crap. The only choice for guys now is to find the most tolerable piece of crap and get to porkin that while we hold our noses and try to avoid the stink.
Tattoos say what about a woman? That is blatant discrimination and labeling. I can’t even believe people think it is acceptable to say something like that about people they don’t know. Don’t judge a book by its cover. This isn’t the 1700s anymore, tattoos are for more than sailors and harlots. A*****e.
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Gotta love the Femi-nazis response though, classic.
I love how people are taking this article serious, as if the kid who wrote it wasn’t joking.
GREAT! Don’t listen to the haters,it’s just your opinion and you shared your thoughts with us. I think you’re pretty damn accurate and i LOVE the HUMOUR,you’re very funny :) love your stuff
whats about the guys?
And for all you manjinas out there….. seriously isnt it time to come out of the closet already? hahahaha
Don’t listen to these self entitled morons, your awesome for putting this on the net, it definitely needed to be said. with you 100%
Win. 2, 3, 4 and 8 are the major ones to look out for.
Most of the socalled “men” posting here bagging out this article are woman.
Anyone who has studied English or Psyc can tell they are woman.
I’ve got to say that this is one of the worst articles I’ve ever read. Haha. The author had to be joking, or trying to get some people worked up of something, because there is no way that someone really believed all of this and knew how to type at the same time. This article did overgeneralize in just about every sentence. Lol. On top of that, just the wording is too generalized. How many constitutes “too many” in too many guy friends? Or when does forward and athletic become “overly forward” and “overly athletic”? I do agree on the make-up and bar things however. I’ve noticed in my life’s experieces that girls who paint thier faces like clowns and constantly need the things that bars/clubs offer (i.e. liquor and constant sexual advances) are not women most men would enjoy having a relationship with.
Well 2 and 4 make a little bit sense, the rest, very judgemental, I believe they are not a valid rule, a person should use…
Over all, the article was funny :) made me laugh
and men who disagree with this are just pathetic white knight chodes who can’t get a respectable woman so they have to resort to trashy whores
HEY GUYS, DID YOU ALSO KNOW THAT WOMEN DON’T LIKE CUPCAKES TOO??
MAN THE F**K UP YOU SOFT BITCHES!
repectable, hot, professional women don’t need tattoos to attract a good man
i agree 100% with this article
if i meet a whore/skank with tattoos, i run…
too many guys friends also 9/10 times = whore
“there’s just no pleasing some people, jesus.”
Apparently not if someone is going to get p*ssy that others don’t like attention.
Seeing as how you’re sort of a know the misogynistic I’m guessing you know the misogynistic term for girls that like attention- attention whores.
haha i agree. and I’m a girl. but that’s because im sort of a mysoginist too D: really? girls complain when guys flirt with them? I’d be flattered. there’s just no pleasing some people, jesus.
Forgetting experiences.- Whoever thinks much and to good purpose easily forgets his own experiences, but not the thoughts which these experiences have called forth. ……
Evidently, the author’s ideal woman is his right hand. What a douche.
Dude has no fucking clue about women. Poor guy :(
This article is bleepin’ brilliant and so true I laughed several times reading it. Haters gonna hate.
I pity the preteen who comes across this s**t and doesn’t know any better.
I’ve been happily married for almost 10 years now. I’m college educated, a great mom and wife and I also happen to have tattoos.
How the hell does my body art factor in to my worth as a spouse?
My husband has tattoos too. Is that a factor?
This list is rubbish.
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this is such an annoying trait I’ve recently been noticing in more and more girls. You make a flirtatious joke and they get all worked up and act offended until you appologise for being a sexist pig with them. Yet if men are insulted, we’re called weak, pathetic, pussies, touchy etc. Women like this are just bitches. There are pleanty of girls I know who will not get offended if you joke around with them, and they are (surprise surprise) very popular, living life to the full, always going out on a Friday night clubbing, pub, parties, etc with tonnes of friends. the one’s that get easily offended all fit a similar profile – ugly, abnoxious, unpopular who like to b***h about their popular ‘friends’ behind their backs.
I bet the author of this article is single. It’s too bad he didn’t have the balls to sign his name.
One of most sexist things I’ve read in a very long time. Good job.
What a load of horseshit. Kind of ashamed that I share a gender with this asshat.
This ‘article’ made me sad for the teachers who obviously failed you early on in your life. The only silver lining in this ridiculous cloud is that you are very unlikely to ever find a woman who will love you.
So, basically you live in your mommas basement, are 600 pounds and a virgin,well other than your hand, you have Heterophobiaic, Erotophobiaic and Genophobiaic tendencies and you are a Freudian wet dream. Welcome to life buddy. Stop being anal retentive and take a risk. They have this thing called projection………
What I learned from this article:
Women aren’t allowed to express themselves with tattoos.
Women aren’t allowed to have emotional problems.
Women aren’t allowed to wear makeup.
Women aren’t allowed to not wear makeup.
Women aren’t allowed to not shave.
Women aren’t allowed to have male friends.
Women aren’t allowed to do what they want to on the internet.
Women aren’t allowed to have political or social opinions.
Women aren’t allowed to talk to men without putting on a show for them.
Women aren’t allowed to go where they want to.
Women aren’t allowed to get upset.
Women aren’t allowed to do sports.
Women aren’t allowed to do what they want with their sex life.
Women aren’t allowed to have their own interests.
Women should always serve men and cater to their desires.
No women want me. I’m gonna write an article about how stupid they are! That’ll show ’em!
Have fun dying alone.
This article is extremely sexist and I think it should be taken down.
@Joe/d
People now a days are definitely more promiscuous than in earlier generations. Promiscuousness has risen for both genders. If you’re looking for a non promiscuous person your best bet is out of America and into a different culture.
Perhaps that’s most of the women you know that label the male population as liars, cheaters and so on and so forth. I see far more labeling in by men about women as I earlier said in general there are far more hate sites about women created by men then there are hate sites about men created by women. Country wise far more sites, blogs, forums, and chat rooms dedicated to the hatred of American women than to the hatred of American men.
As for the sacrificing beauty for a normal girl you’re now experiencing what most women have to sacrificing attraction for a good relationship. After all interesting, fun to be around, decent, and attractive are a rare combo in a guy. It is men who tend to upgrade in the looks department with partners more than women do so.
As for the many girls you’ve having no aspirations of being in a serious relationship or want to do anything besides party you’re 22 most young people don’t have a desire to do anything but socialize and aren’t looking to be weighed down by serious commitment. Casual is the key during this period.
Perhaps you should check yourself out on what kind of girls you’re attracted to or keep attracting you if the more mature you act the more it drives girls crazy is a common occurrence.
I’m unaware how girls are walking around with a chip on their shoulder “like they are clean” by wearing little makeup. Unless you know that girl hasn’t bathed her body or has an STD she is clean.
“You girls can act like all guys are man wh*res and your just doing the same, fact is don’t preach respect when you don’t deserve it.”
All this implies is that men should stop preaching respect as well as they don’t deserve it. Essentially this implies is that neither gender deserves respect as both genders are promiscuous and in fact the male gender exalts their promiscuousness. Though I believe respect is earned and no one is entitled to it aka deserves it simply for existing. My respect isn’t tied to a person’s sexual past, present, or future but their character and treatment of others.
“I see girls who sleep around and literally call other girls wh*re.”
No different from a guy sleeping around and calling girls whores for doing the same. It’s a thing called double standards people use them when it suits them and complain when it doesn’t.
“Sorry, I don’t want to take you out to eat or to a movie when you just bang guys every couple months- why should I waste my time? I’ll keep looking for a level headed girl who respects herself before I go with a tramp.”
As people have different opinions on what is a tramp and what they find attractive/worthwhile to date I can get that you’ll pass such a girl by.
However I’m quite unsure how her self-respect and level headiness are tied to if she bangs guys every couple of months. Then again you’re American so when it comes to girls their sexual past is tied to self-respect & maturity unlike with guys who can f*ck around and their relationship material status is rarely held into quite unless the numbers are outrageously high.
“And no dating a guy for a month and then f*cking him doesn’t make you not a wh*re, or of your one of those “homie hoppers” who f*ck all the guy friends. I have had girls that are homie hoppers( not dated but hooked up). Feel free ladies to pick my post apart and get all heated, those of you who do are probably the promiscuous ones I’m talking about.”
So she’s automatically a homie hopper….seems like there’s no other option such as they weren’t compatible for a relationship. Okay then. No offense but I think you’re the one who is all heated. You can have your opinion on what is a tramp, whore, slut but it seems like this is more about the type of girls you continually attract or are attracted to.
Women now a days are defiantly more promiscuous then in earlier generations. Most women label the male population as liars, cheaters and so on and so forth. However, women ( or girls) I should say are just immature- at least where I’m from- Chicago. I’ve had many girlfriends, and no one is perfect. I’ve noticed that you generally sacrifice beauty for a normal girl. And honestly, I am a good looking guy..but many of the girls I’ve come across have no aspirations of being in a serious relationship or want to do anything besides party. I’m a 22 year old male. Again, no one is perfect over that and this is just my option based on my experiences. I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends, and I find the more level headed I am and the more adult I act..the more it drives girls crazy. Its like they want me to yell and scream, or cheat on them. Attention whores? Maybe, but that’s not the kind of attention I want to give. Also, many girls walk around with a chip on thief shoulder like they are clean, wear little make up. Sorry, having sex with 10 guys or giving blow jobs all the time is unattractive. You girls can act like all guys are man whores and your just doing the same, fact is don’t preach respect when you don’t deserve it. I see girls who sleep around and literally call other girls whore. Sorry, I don’t want to take you out to eat or to a movie when you just bang guys every couple months- why should I waste my time? I’ll keep looking for a level headed girl who respects herself before I go with a tramp. And no dating a guy for a month and then f****** him doesn’t make you not a whore, or of your one of those “homie hoppers” who f**k all the guy friends. I have had girls that are homie hoppers( not dated but hooked up). Feel free ladies to pick my post apart and get all heated, those of you who do are probably the promiscuous ones I’m talking about.
Women now a days are defiantly more promiscuous then in earlier generations. Most women label the male population as liars, cheaters and so on and so forth. However, women ( or girls) I should say are just immature- at least where I’m from- Chicago. I’ve had many girlfriends, and no one is perfect. I’ve noticed that you generally sacrifice beauty for a normal girl. And honestly, I am a good looking guy..but many of the girls I’ve come across have no aspirations of being in a serious relationship or want to do anything besides party. I’m a 22 year old male. Again, no one is perfect over that and this is just my option based on my experiences. I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends, and I find the more level headed I am and the more adult I act..the more it drives girls crazy. Its like they want me to yell and scream, or cheat on them. Attention whores? Maybe, but that’s not the kind of attention I want to give. Also, many girls walk around with a chip on thief shoulder like they are clean, wear little make up. Sorry, having sex with 10 guys or giving blow jobs all the time is unattractive. You girls can act like all guys are man whores and your just doing the same, fact is don’t preach respect when you don’t deserve it. I see girls who sleep around and literally call other girls whore. Sorry, I don’t want to take you out to eat or to a movie when you just bang guys every couple months- why should I waste my time? I’ll keep looking for a level headed girl who respects herself before I go with a tramp. And no dating a guy for a month and then fucking him doesn’t make you not a whore, or of your one of those “homie hoppers” who f**k all the guy friends. I have had girls that are homie hoppers( not dated but hooked up). Feel free ladies to pick my post apart and get all heated, those of you who do are probably the promiscuous ones I’m talking about.
LMFAO most of you are hopelessly retarded author included but the responses do little convincing of the contrary. Agreed tattoos are pretty stupid along with the people who get them i fail to see the point in it. Other than that yeah its funny to see all of you freaking out. Cant wait to see the responses to mine LMAO. Auto response = GFYS
@John
” Wish I was born in the 1920′s, 1930′s, 1940′s or at the latest the 1950′s. Liberalism and feminism has destroyed the once beautiful, gorgeous American woman and American society.”
Understandable that you’d wish you were born in a time where your gender had far more power thhan it does now. Human nature to desire power and more of it.
A bit unsettling that you would want to go back to times were the opposite gender had far less rights, far less opportunities, spousal rape was not illegal, and spousal abuse/rape was swept under the rug. As well as that a woman had to rely on a man for her survival rather than being able to have the same opportunities and ability to be self-sufficient and indepened.
Also unsettiling that you think freedom and liberalism has destroyed American society and women…though for you the concern is only the pretty women.
I’m guessing that you’re upset that now a girl has to find you physically/sexually attractive, interesting, and fun to be around rather than the times you wish for where you had to fulfill the bare minimum as half-decent and not going to beat me were ideal as in those times you would have been her survival.
@Simon
1. “Given the hostility of American females toward men,”
American males are also hostile towards females as American society is very hostile.
I’ve seen plenty of sites, blogs, forums, and chatrooms decicated to the hatred of American women by American men. I’ve yet to seee a similar site, blog, forum, or chatroom by American women about American men. Overall in general hate sites towards women outnmumber hates sites towards men.
2. and their propensity for making false rape accusations,
In 2008 the FBI statistics were that 8% of rape accusations are false.
Since you’re defining a more recent one is Liask’s 2010 5.9% of female accusations of men are false.
I go by the FBI’s because despite Liasks going into seeing if most rapes were false accusations by women I don’t go as defining rape as male on female.While older it’s still within my 5 year limit.
By chance are you relying on MRA propaganda which uses a 1994 article based on one city’s data from 1978-1987 data that Kanin, the researcher, gathered using the city’s police officer’s OPINIONS and has no investigation of his own.
It’s illogical to me to use an 18 year old article based on 70-80s data from one sample size with questionable methodology as the norm especially when said data is outdated and not recent but hey whatever.
Going by stats in American men are more likely to rape a woman then they are to get a false rape accusation.
I agree with the commenters that most of this list is silly generalizations.
1. Tattoos- Despite the title tramp stamps no study has shown that people with tattoos are more sexually promiscous than people without. Studies have shown that women with tattoos are viewed by men as heavier drinkers, more promiscuous and less attractive than women without. Your views however are preference not fact.
3. Makeup Extremities- This doesn’t seem to be a negative character trait unless it’s spurned by vanity or insecurity. In other words it seems more like a guy who wants to make sure what he sees is what he’s getting or close too it than bad character on a woman’s part.
4. Too Many Guy Friends- This doesn’t seem to be a negative character trait unless it’s spurned by her thinking women are the enemy.
5. Obsessed with online social networks- As today is the digital age and social networking is usually a common part in most people lives I disgree with the connotations that she is either super bored, super narcissistic, super insecure, super b*tchy, super desperate, or total wh*res. As well as what you may define as obsessed others may find normal.
6. Extremely Anti Trendy- Most free thinkers and revolutionaries were this way. This doesn’t seem to be a negative character trait unless she’s trying to impose her views onto you.
7. Overly Forwared- This doesn’t seem to be indicative of a bad character trait. Rather it seems your own personal preference. Some guys like forward/aggressive girls or don’t mind if a girl makes the first move.
8. Hangs Out Quite Often At Bars, Clubs, Etc- This isn’t a bad character indicative trait unless she can’t manage being alone or without a crowd. Otherwise she’s just a social person who likes to dance and listen to music in social gatherings.
Since most clubs are filled with guys I guess that means most guys are slutty, crazy, or depressed. This point actually seems to encourage women to be hostile towards guys at such social gatherings because he only wants sex and he’s slutty/crazy/depressed since he’s hanging out here.
9. Easily Offended, Extremely Poubty, Etc- This isn’t a bad character indicative trait but rather incompatibility as people have differentlevels of sensitivity.
Honorable Mention Overly Athletic- This seems more like your own personal preference if you feel an overly athletic girl is attempting to show you up rather than she’s intterested in fitness and is a sporty gal.
@Charles
1. .for all you “people” (especially women) who are bashing this guy, you prove that women cannot handle criticsm when its deflected on other women.
If it was only women bashing the writer then your argument that women cannot handle criticism when its deflected on other women would be sensible. However it’s people (guys & gals) who are insulting the writer so your argument is quite invalid.
Especially since the bashing is not because he criticized women but because of his particular generalizations.
2. “It just goes to show us REAL men who see that not all women are “sugar and spice” and should be held accountable for bad behaviors but the manginas and women here think that women are “perfect angels””
This is quite illogical as no one made any of those assertions but rather that this list is made up of silly geneeralizations or insulting the writer.
Please cite who stated that women were made up of sugar & spice, that women shouldn’t be held accountable for bad behaviors, or that women are perfect angels.
Please cite what bad behaviors are women not being held accountable for when the discussion is about whether this list is silly generalizations or truthful.
3. “Your shaming tactics dont work on us anymore and that just shows how immature you “people” really are.”
Seems like you’re the one doing the shaming tactics with the REAL men and manginas bit. So you have some immaturity as well.
4. Its like you people expect us to accept and encourage women’s bad behaviors and flaws. A mangina will do that be I will not and better men make better choices in women.
Please cite who state that men are expected to accept and encourage women’s bad behaviors and flaws.
The discussion was about whether this list is silly generalizations or truthful.
5. “Men should not be suckered into dating a wh*re or a former wh*re because you women think he should “look past” her “past” you wouldnt say that to a woman who was considering dating a past player would you?”
This suggests shows how emotional rather than logical you are.
When did anyone make the assseriton that men should date a wh*re or former wh*re?
I’m quite unsure as the topic was insulting the writer and that the list is silly generalizations.
LMAO! Inevitability, real life cannot be determined by those criteria’s. Life, people and/or personalities aren’t set in stones. Nonetheless, the listing sounds more like your unlucky chain of events with females rather than a controlled unbiased research.
stop woman bashing.
I do think the author’s message here is to be a quality pick-up artists or quality dominant males in order to impress or not being criticize by other pick-up artists or dominant males as they are competing with each other.
I do think the author is giving points to give more advice to pick-up artists or to be dominant male that they should avoid women of these kinds to avoid being criticize by other pick-up artists or dominant males as they are competing with each other.
This is a pretty funny list, I like it
Anyone who disagrees with the list is also stating their opinions though, no? Why should he be judged for the type of women he avoids? This list is perfectly accurate, and I agree with it as a good guideline for finding a good “girlfriend”.
If you truly are upset at this, that’s only because you see yourself on the list, probably more than once. The way I look at it, he is judging a women by the way she treats her body, mind, and soul. If you feel a woman should be able to wear tattoo’s, be unintelligent, and wear thick make-up then fine. He is just saying that if you have any of these features, dealing with the psychological problems underneath aren’t worth a try.
EVERYTHING about someone is linked to a psychological reason in some way or form. You like to think you got tattoo’s because your different, where as I like to think you need to get your childhood trauma sorted out. I hate baggage.
I agree 98 % with the list! Except for the attack on the “indie rock” anti trendy girl thing! That’s a good thing dude! Who the f**k wants a nike wearing, rap loving, un intelegent prepi b***h! F**k those chicks they’ll cheat on you with a black guy lmao! Plain and simple F**K prepi bitches! They’re only good for a one night stand = ) s**t I don’t even consider them human lol! Think about it!
Also girls with big round earrings tend to be much more promiscuous than the rest.
About tattoos , in my opinion everything you choose to do to your body is a decision that shows something about the way you think. Tattoos show a lack of foresight coupled with a desperate need to stand out. Why would a girl have a tattoo on her back other than to have something to show the guy doing her in the ass? This list is quite correct…
Stubbled upon this list and love it! And yes, sorry ladies most of it is true. I’m married 23 years to a great woman who is independent, intelligent, sexy lady. I feel very lucky. I did pay attention though back in the day and I did date most of these types. This list is spot on! BTW, I’m sure there is the equivalent male red flag list out there that is probably spot on too. Stereotypes are true but so are the acceptions, keep an open mind, it’s hard to find a keeper, personality moderation is key.
Nice red flag list, especially the ‘girls with guy friends’, these bitches have no clue.
I don’t think all the above its true. For once i am sure some red fags are pointtles. But the tattu’s i am not so keen on them even if i think girls with tatu’s might be good for sex.
oooh wee i think someone hate women. ajajaja if you follow all this article points
1.- you hate women or are a weirdo
2.- you are a psycho
3.- you are gay
i think the person who write this is gay and he is jelous of women because he dont have a vagina.
if is a woman then she have mommy issues that is why she hate other women or she is super fucking ugly.
Wow. So, you’re never going to find a girlfriend
I love when girls say “I’m friends with so maby guys because girls are so two faced”. I’m pretty sure that you are friends with half the male population because they are or were after you.
I Know a tatooed girl who had a vast number of male frends over females.She cheated on her guy emotionally an physically and USED her guy friends as they constantly tried to covertly impress her-she then put them out when their advances could no longer be managed.
I know another girl who grew up without a male figure in her life.She grew up believing that she was a priceless catch and used to play with guys emotions.She wanted to marry very rich international sports personalities.Ten years later never having any real relationship because she is also a religious nut bag she is on facebook looking for attention from here and there.Putting up fake relationship photos and posting some rather desparate statuses in times of weakness.
I know yet another one who sings church songs and quotes bible verses but dresses like a cheap prostitute/ whore-foundation and otherwise.I have asked her why she is so sexually sugestive in her dress and behaviour while on the other hand she probably can recite 1/4 if not more of the bible of which chastity is a constant value.Also very materialistic and cheats on her boy friend to the point of ridicule.
I sense that this situation is not amusing to the poster..he is actually bemoaning the lack of socio-culturally and mentally balanced women in todays society.The women who have fired insults on this article fall under the list in question.A society is doomed to fail when its back bone is broken-and the back bone society are women.This leftist feminist stuff is the fall of society.Men should behave like men and be responsible for thier women.Too manny gay,soft- pussy whipped men are interfering in what it means to be a real man.Islamic society my have a better solution culturally to what it means to be a balanced women than our modern society.Men MUST be tought to behave like true men -hard working ,considerate and tough and women must also reduce their subscription to this list of shame.
SPOT ON.
K, for real though, this person is missing the point to trying to develop a satisfying relationship and, in turn, have a life that they are satisfied with. Let the analysis begin!!
1)No Tattoos? Good luck finding someone under 30 in 2011 that doesn’t have a tattoo.
2) Daddy Issues? Pffft, sounds like this guys got some Mommy Issues. How else can you explain the fact that he(or, God forbid, they) have all these totally unobtainable expectations for a potential female partner to adhere to. Too much mental baggage with the Daddy Issues, eh, Annoynous Accounting major author? I guess when you’ve got some many issues of your own, it’s tough to handle a REAL human being with some character!!
3) The pettiness of this rule about make-up extremities is remarkably far more petty than the actual make-up extremities in which the author describes.
4) This rule sounds like the guy is insecure. What? Is it tougher for you to convincce girls that you’re a interesting, sensitive lover since she is actually social and has had relationships before? Oh, maybe you’re just afraid that her guy friends will beat the s**t out of you after you start hitting her out of frustration by your stunted and warped engineer coping skills that fail on you when dealing with human beings and not machines.
5) How could you even determine this on meeting a woman for the first time and getting to know her. “Hey, how much time do you spend on ‘social networks’?” Dig this: If you were to actually to investigate a girl to make sure she wasn’t glued to sites like Facebook,myspace,eharmony and others, YOU would have to be on those sites, checking for her and then *Bang-o*, you are your own worst nightmare, you lowly International Finance first-year.
6) Clearly, this is a matter of taste and preferences. This guy wiritng this is basically barfing up his own bland taste in friends/woman and trying to flimsily tout this as gospel, which is more funny than educational. This just makes me think this guy is even more boring than before. “OH no! I might have to have an engaged, meaningful conversation with the person I’m dating!!!! I might get to understand their opinions!!!! NOOO!!!”
7)This guy sounds ugly and is aware of his ugliness. More so, it sounds from rule# 7 that is knows he’s generally repellent to most woman, and expects level-headed women not to approach him. He’s right, any girl that voluntarily comes up to him in conversation is a nut-job. Or blind.
8) I actually agree with Nerd-Burger here, bars aren’t the best place to meet your future wife. Unless it’s a rad venue you just played while you were on tour with your “indie band”, and you just opened for her band, because they are awesome, but other than that, bars aren’t the best places to meet engineers that don’t like interesting people.
9) This sounds like he’s resorted to trying his luck with junior high kids in the love department. My God, man, have some human decency!!!
10) OK, this rule makes me think this whole list was a clever ruse and if so, I applaud the writer for such a convincing regurgitation of common highlights from the Bro-ocrocy of Engineer-dom. If not, they pout because they have to deal with you telling them terrible jokes about farting.
11) I’m sorry the author of this article is fat and even girls made fun of him for his fatness growing up. Unless the person he is describing is WWE Diva Chyna, there is no reason to rag on someone for wanting to keep fit. Think about it, your tubby bag of bland, computer science learning, pastiness, you will be forever alone!
I think the poster of this article should just give in and admit he’s gay. Yup.
Good list. Better comments. All the ladies that missed the cut sure seem to be bending over backwards trying to support why they should be avoided. The list made the point, the comments proved it.
As a side note, I feel that all these traits in a guy are just as deplorable. Swap out too much time on make up for too much time on hair and boom! Perfect flags for ladies to watch out for as well.
Note: If you have a tatoo, and are feeling really hurt about the author’s ideas… your red flag isn’t the tatoo, it’s that you were offended so easily.
Apologies to all those that might disagree. =)
Man, the guy who put this together is my new hero…. absolutely spot-on. Perfectly describes the hand-full of tatoo laden, eye-liner over-kill sorts of girls I have tried to date. Attention-starved and emotionally scrambled. They swear they are fucking cool as s**t, can’t take a joke, can’t handle money, always have some strife-story to spill out. Stay away from these screwed up sirens, all I have to say….
Can’t we just all get along? There are some pretty mean comments on here. Just because someone has some of these qualities (maybe it’s not your thing and that’s fine) doesn’t mean you need to judge them. Just don’t date them. It is possible to be friends with people from the opposite sex. And no, I don’t have all male friends. ; )
You just made a list that says every girl on the planet is bad. I don’t care who the girl is. She will have at least one of those so called red flags. I just think you’re a fag and are scared of women.
1. Tattoos-I am not a huge fan of tattoos. Especially on women. I will never get one, so is it so bad that my “dream girl” doesn’t have one? If a girl has one, it doesn’t mean I wont ever talk to her again. It just is just something I am not attracted to whatsoever, but not a deal breaker.
2. Daddy Issues-I’m not even totally sure what this means. However, I do know that super clingy can become overbearing. Being Bitchy leads to confrontation and unhappiness. I’m not going any deeper into this topic.
3. Makeup-I find girls that make their faces look fake rather unattractive. Makeup to a certain degree is totally fine, but too much is just gross. The part saying be wary of girls who are opposed to makup is just saying find a girl who takes pride in their looks. Maybe they dont wear makeup because they are naturally beautiful, but it is nice when a girl take some extra effort to look good. I do the best I can to look good. I probably fail myself, but it is just about taking self pride in your appearance.
4. Too many guy friends-Jealousy. This “red flag” to me means I might not be able to control my jealousy if I feel the one I currently am involved with is cheating on me even when it could be a friendly honest friendship. Jealousy is a tough emotion, so you have to have some level of sympathy towards it. Don’t get me wrong though, too much jealousy is
bad.
5. To much social networks-Well, it isn’t bad to spend your fair share online chatting with friends and whatnot, but does anyone honestly want their significant other to be on Facebook all of the time? Every funny thing you say, the other has to make it their status to let their 300 friends see the conversation what thought was between you and them. Once again, moderation is key.
6. Anti trendy-Make and the statements you want about trends, but there are places and times to do these protests. Sometimes it is just obnoxious. Suppose you offer to buy someone coffee. They agree. You take them to starbucks (like the author said in his article)and they refuse and give some speech about it being to “corporate” and they only drink coffee from “joe’s coffee shack”. My reaction, your welcome for buying coffee, and see if I ever offer to treat you again. A more appropriate response would be to drink the coffee and to say, “thank you for the coffee. Next time we should go to joe’s coffee shack. I really dont like starbucks.” I would probably even ask why they dont like starbucks, and right there would be a nice little conversation.
7. overly forward-I would say this is not a very big deal. However, certain forward people can come off as a bit fake or crazy. Basically, be cautious and decide if this particular person bugs you and if not go for it.
8. Hangs out at bars, etc. often-Someone who hangs out at bars often could be an alcoholic, slut, depressed, or lacks self control. They could also just be a regular who goes for the regular social crowd who also goes there. It is like the Toby Keith song “I love this Bar”. So be cautious once again, because I dont think very many people’s dream girl is an alcoholic who wastes all of their money at a bar. Try to sort out the people you dont want and to only focus on the crowd who see more compatible.
9. Extremely Clueless-Some guys might like this. My dream girl is my equal in many ways. And one of these is intellectually. I feel as if I am not totally clueless, and I dont really want to spend time with people who dont have a clue.
10. Easily offended-I dont want a girl who is easily offended. I would probably be continually offending them even though I honestly have no intention to offend them. Some people find a way to take everything personally, and that can become rather depressing. If I innocently tease her, I would rather if she could take it, and possibly tease me back. I think it is called flirting? hmmmm
Honorable Mention. Overly Athletic-Basically, most people enjoy some down time. Maybe watch a movie, or even just chatting while doing nothing. Other people hate these activities and always need to be climbing a mountain or riding their bicycle long distances. You need to decide if you like doing these things as a hobby or as your life. I dont mind partaking in some athletic activities, but if a girl hates staying still a couple days at a time, I dont think I could keep up with her.
Now that I have rewritten the article explaining why I agree with these 10 red flags, I would like to wrap up how I feel. MODERATION. If you do some of these things in MODERATION no big deal. If any girl takes too many of these categories to the EXTREME, well, I wont be able to stand then. A lot of people on here said the Author was a dumbass and Tattoos are cool and sexy. I dont feel the same way as you all, but I honestly dont care if you have one, want one, or have 30. This is just how I feel, and just like that is how you feel. Everyone is different.
Well where to begin. I agree with just about everything listed in this article. However, I will not rule any girl out for these “red flags”. I would rather decide if I like them based on how badly they annoy me. Unfortunately, many of these red flags do sound like they may annoy me. I guess I will just go down the list and say why I agree.
1. Tattoos-I am not a huge fan of tattoos. Especially on women. I will never get one, so is it so bad that my “dream girl” doesn’t have one? If a girl has one, it doesn’t mean I wont ever talk to her again. It just is just something I am not attracted to whatsoever, but not a deal breaker.
2. Daddy Issues-I’m not even totally sure what this means. However, I do know that super clingy can become overbearing. Being Bitchy leads to confrontation and unhappiness. I’m not going any deeper into this topic.
3. Makeup-I find girls that make their faces look fake rather unattractive. Makeup to a certain degree is totally fine, but too much is just gross. The part saying be wary of girls who are opposed to makup is just saying find a girl who takes pride in their looks. Maybe they dont wear makeup because they are naturally beautiful, but it is nice when a girl take some extra effort to look good. I do the best I can to look good. I probably fail myself, but it is just about taking self pride in your appearance.
4. Too many guy friends-Jealousy. This “red flag” to me means I might not be able to control my jealousy if I feel the one I currently am involved with is cheating on me even when it could be a friendly honest friendship. Jealousy is a tough emotion, so you have to have some level of sympathy towards it. Don’t get me wrong though, too much jealousy is
bad.
5. To much social networks-Well, it isn’t bad to spend your fair share online chatting with friends and whatnot, but does anyone honestly want their significant other to be on Facebook all of the time? Every funny thing you say, the other has to make it their status to let their 300 friends see the conversation what thought was between you and them. Once again, moderation is key.
6. Anti trendy-Make and the statements you want about trends, but there are places and times to do these protests. Sometimes it is just obnoxious. Suppose you offer to buy someone coffee. They agree. You take them to starbucks (like the author said in his article)and they refuse and give some speech about it being to “corporate” and they only drink coffee from “joe’s coffee shack”. My reaction, your welcome for buying coffee, and see if I ever offer to treat you again. A more appropriate response would be to drink the coffee and to say, “thank you for the coffee. Next time we should go to joe’s coffee shack. I really dont like starbucks.” I would probably even ask why they dont like starbucks, and right there would be a nice little conversation.
7. overly forward-I would say this is not a very big deal. However, certain forward people can come off as a bit fake or crazy. Basically, be cautious and decide if this particular person bugs you and if not go for it.
8. Hangs out at bars, etc. often-Someone who hangs out at bars often could be an alcoholic, slut, depressed, or lacks self control. They could also just be a regular who goes for the regular social crowd who also goes there. It is like the Toby Keith song “I love this Bar”. So be cautious once again, because I dont think very many people’s dream girl is an alcoholic who wastes all of their money at a bar. Try to sort out the people you dont want and to only focus on the crowd who see more compatible.
9. Extremely Clueless-Some guys might like this. My dream girl is my equal in many ways. And one of these is intellectually. I feel as if I am not totally clueless, and I dont really want to spend time with people who dont have a clue.
10. Easily offended-I dont want a girl who is easily offended. I would probably be continually offending them even though I honestly have no intention to offend them. Some people find a way to take everything personally, and that can become rather depressing. If I innocently tease her, I would rather if she could take it, and possibly tease me back. I think it is called flirting? hmmmm
Honorable Mention. Overly Athletic-Basically, most people enjoy some down time. Maybe watch a movie, or even just chatting while doing nothing. Other people hate these activities and always need to be climbing a mountain or riding their bicycle long distances. You need to decide if you like doing these things as a hobby or as your life. I dont mind partaking in some athletic activities, but if a girl hates staying still a couple days at a time, I dont think I could keep up with her.
Now that I have rewritten the article explaining why I agree with these 10 red flags, I would like to wrap up how I feel. MODERATION. If you do some of these things in MODERATION no big deal. If any girl takes too many of these categories to the EXTREME, well, I wont be able to stand then. A lot of people on here said the Author was a dumbass and Tattoos are cool and sexy. I dont feel the same way as you all, but I honestly dont care if you have one, want one, or have 30. This is just how I feel, and just like that is how you feel. Everyone is different.
Let me clear this up for all you females. the whole reason you all like hanging out with guys so much is because guys are “sooo much nicer, More fun, Less drama” all that stuff… well there is a reason they are so much nicer… they want to get laid. When i see a chick without a guy shes “fair game” dont matter if she has a boyfriend or not. i have discussed this with almost every guy I know. the ones in relationships, and single. there isnt a guy who would dissagree. GUYS ONLY WANT 1 THING! example, I will never/have never taken a guy friend to dinner and a movie, never given my guy friend an “innocent massage” never spent 100 bucks on flowers for a guy friend cause he was having a bad afternoon. these are all tricks by guys who can’t man up and tell you they wanna tap that. hell i have tons of “girl friends” who would claim im totaly innocent to their bf’s, when in all reality I am not gonna hang out with some girl unless i’m trying to get some. i know this will cause some hate from all you girls who will try to defend your guy friends to the death. but the truth still remains. your just dumb, ignorant people. but i dont blame you guys. i know deep down in my heart you really are stupid and just dont understand the logic in what im saying. :P you’ll never find a guy who doesnt care about you having guy friends (unless he’s cheating lol) because he knows everything im saying. lets be honest. every women is a b***h…. maybe not full blown but a b***h lives in you all. why the f**k would any guy wanna chill with drama queen b***h…… only one reason. her vagina. i could be wrong and maybe its just all the guys ive ever talked to in my whole life… but not likely. trust is earned not given. girls with lots of guys friends is THE BIGGEST RED FLAG EVER! “ever notice how these girls with 50 guy friends think every other girl is such a slut…. lol. good times.
i’m guilty of number 4 over and over again… any advice?
Article was spot on in most of the red flags. It was funny to read the torrent of indignation that follows from angry women, supported by a rash of whining, liberal pussified men. Get over yourselves.
@ miss sleeparound: vomit.
Once upon a time an ugly duckling fell in love with a man.
The man never paid any attention to her. She didn’t exist to him. She was heartbroken:(
One day, for some reason, she became hot and beautiful:)
All the men pursued her affections; including the man that she once loved when she was an ugly duckling. But who cares now. F*ck him. She’s getting laid now, plenty c*ck left and right and p*ssy too so f*ck everyone. Literally. The End.
Moral: You would do the same if you were a hot b*tch >:D
Crap. Waste of time to read.
found the literature very interesting.
what the f**k is this s**t?
Whoa! This is spot on. Any woman who desires to be something other than a boring, supplicant baby factory simply must have “daddy issues.” Just like any woman who is mad for any reason must be on her period! I have seen the light! We shoulda never given them the vote!
Hey I wanna argue over something that is obviously humor, too, you bunch of morons.
All you stupid people pissing and moaning go fucking jump in a luck with cement shoes. The human race does not require your existence any further.
wow you have issues. you are way to picky. apparently u want a woman with NO thought of her own. go buy your 10 $ coffee at starbucks and listen to some drake and go wallow in your pathetic life. and i love your line”…. insecure girls who tend to think every disagreement leads to someone being abandoned in a dumpster” because GOD FORBID something traumatic happened to her, why even waste your time with her? and i just have a strange feeling your a bit of an ass who makes fun of woman and get mad when they dont laugh, who thinks he’s better then everyone else.
This was probably one of the most retarded things I’ve ever read in my life. The only one I agree with is staying away from girls who don’t seem to know what’s going on in the world around them…but honestly there are men who fit into that category as well. This was written my some moronic 22 year old who was raised by their extremely over-protective grandmother and has a unit the size of a pencil.
Eh, this is a pretty retarded list, especially the “male friends” part. Some women just don’t have stuff in common with many girls, I know a few who have almost entirely male friends and it’s purely because they don’t share many common interests with other women (one was a complete nerd and hung out with gamers and the other was really into sports). This is far too generalised.
The too many guy friends is so beyond right. Any girl who gets defensive over having more guy friends is trying to cover for the simple fact that she’s a slut. I don’t know a single girl who has more guy friends who hasn’t cheated on a boyfriend on several occasions. Girls with more guy friends are sluts, plain and simple…the other points are dodgy to say the least.
This article is one of the most offensive things I’ve ever read. It sounds as if it was written by a Southern fundamentalist preacher in the 1920s. We can vote now, and what’s more, we’re unique fucking snow-flakes. Stop lumping us all together.
whoever wrote this article is a fucken tool.
Whatever you do, avoid American women. Fucked up beyond all compare via years and years, decades of leftist – feminist propaganda and lies. Any gal who sports a tramp stamp – they are, or piercings is clearly gutter material, totally classless. Gals who wear pants look like s**t. Wish I was born in the 1920’s, 1930’s, 1940’s or at the latest the 1950’s. Liberalism and feminism has destroyed the once beautiful, gorgeous American woman and American society.
As far i have noticed, women are good and they are usually like boys. i mean that women and men are equal in most of the aspects. not only men have attractiveness to good looking girls but women too have attractiveness to good looking men.
but one thing i have to tell you that men is flexible before committed to any relationships, like they even love a less – good looking girl and sorry to say that i have seen no girl (mostly less – good looking) ever wants to commit or atleast be a good friend to a less – good looking boy !!!!!!!!!
in this aspect women have to change !!!!!!!
This message is mainly to those women or girls(less – good looking). And am very sorry for using the word “less good looking” , because i cant use the word “bad looking” as i believe that no one in this world, men or women are Bad looking :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
This article was too funny for words. One question, does my dad attempting to raise me as a boy count as a daddy issue? LOL :)
Let me guess, you’re single?
I would say the opposite of #6 is also true. Too trendy gets annoying and shows a lack of personality
After reading the first few, I stopped reading. These aren’t red flags for meeting girls, they’re generalizations about all sorts of people under the claim that they’re specific to women.
i happen to think the girl in the picture is smoking hot and her tattoos are very well placed and pretty. i’m also relieved to know that idiots like the one who wrote this article and idiots who read it and agree with it will never hit on me. it’s really a win-win situation.
Pissed- Definitely agreed, I think there are similarities and we all know someone like Gee. I just think a lot of these flags can also represent something else besides inner turmoil and post-adolescent rage. Sorry to hear you fell victim to such a siren…
Anonymous777: Thank you for displaying your complete lack of comprehension of anthropology, the English language, and standard researching procedure. Race and gender are obviously not synonyms, but they are similarly applied categories, used and invented to describe a specific sub-group within a population.
Race and gender in themselves are invented terms as a device to stereotype a group of people; the same ignorant practice that launched this long winded argument in the first place.
Honestly. Do you honestly think race is a scientific term? Pray tell, what is the scientific criteria for being black? Having “dark” skin? In comparison to your “white” skin? What about being “Asian”? Now is the part where you say “uhhh.. having slanted eyes”, and I call you a racist. And please don’t go around saying “being from Asia”. As if there are no other sub-race categories within Asia itself…
There is NO scientific backing behind race or racial categorization, it is merely an ill-defined pop-culture term used for the generalization of a specific sub-group within the populace. The word only exists to segregate a population, making the term devastatingly ironic in itself. *side note: If you are middle eastern and taking a standardize test, kindly check the “white box” this year, as the gods of standardized testing prefer you in the “white” category instead of “Asian/Pacific Islander*
Gender is one and the same. Don’t be confused, I did not say “sex” instead of gender, which is the scientific difference between a man and a woman (i.e. having a completely different anatomy). Gender is a term referring to the sex-based “personality” of something. Therefore to infer someone has an attributed gender quality is much like pegging a person for their “race” making the term gender equally racist, or in any case, incorrect. To use it implies that each sex has a set of specific qualities or characteristics that are non-scientific, attributed to being of the male, female, or trans sex (sex being a physiological, real difference). To say that I like pink, therefore am more likely to have a vagina is of equivalent ignorance as to say that race holds any scientific weight whatsoever, unless you can prove that all “black” people like grape soda.
SO before you criticize my use of terminology, you should first know the definitions of that which you are criticizing.
Vic: Actually, I’m a perfectly charming blonde girl, perhaps guilty of 1/10 flags. I don’t wear make up, have no tattoos, and have even been described as “pretty”. I do, although, have a disproportionate amount of guy friends. Which is seemingly ironic as to the commenting storm of disapproval (though I admit, my initial reaction was a bit over exaggerated). Stupidity is quite common, and now widely published thanks to the internet, therefore this article shouldn’t have triggered such shock or indignation.
Though. I am still a bit stunned by the stupidity in question.
This is pure s**t.
Choo Choo is dumb. Female is a gender and by no means are gender and race synonyms. FYI using overly flamboyant words proves what a jackass you are far more than how vast your database of verbiage is. So basically you suck, and you can take that to the bank. And you might be gay…. Oh but your definitely a jackass. Oh ya and just to clear it up for you gay isn’t a race, but you are defiantely are dumb. And you likely smell like cottage cheese so take a g.d. Shower. And you have only one friend but she smells bad and wears glasses so she’s obviously inferior to the general populous, however the humor is that she is your friend because she feels bad for you. So to wrap things up here I’d like to finish by saying you suck, your dumb, you smell like tuna ass, and your mom told me she hates you cuz you suck so much. (yes I know cuz isn’t a real word, and I didn’t even have to reference spell check to make sure either. Jackass) oh btw you suck….. A donkey
Great article! I followed your guidelines and ta-da I have a date tomorrow. Maybe my parents will quit calling me a faggot now.
Tina, Choochoo and Female Reader are 10s
Anonymous would probably prefer to go back to the days when marital rape was legal, spousal abuse was fine because it just meant she was being “difficult” and women were expected to stay at home all day popping out baby after baby and only allowed to have contact with others in her position lest she become “tainted” with the idea that she might be allowed to have a education, form her own opinions outside her husbands, and be her own person. Anonymous is also a bigoted d*******g who has probably been dumped by girls with tattoos, many guy friends, strong activist opinions, or generally strong personalities after they took offence to him trying to turn them into sweet little stepford wannabes to cook him dinner every night and spread her legs when he wanted to stick his dick in for the whole half a minute he could possibility last.
3 RED FLAGS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN MEETING MEN
1. Spends too much time writing long-winded, sexist, offensive and idiotic blogs.
2. Sets his standards for women too high when in fact he probably has trouble impressing any woman OR uses these standards to hide the fact that he is a loser and cant find any woman at all that would be willing to show him her tits.
3. Can’t spell or have the brain power to use spell check.
Serioulsy, I think only a nun would pass your checklist. Oh wait, even nuns get offended. They’re also fairly ‘anti-trendy’. You’re gonna die lonely.
I agree with parts of the original article. It’s not my intention to stereotype, but many of the attributes made by the author to some emotionally disturbed women seem to be true.
I became infatuated with a pretty blond- let’s call her Gen who turned out to be a very emotionally disturbed woman. She did pot and at the same time visited a counselor for her emotional needs periodically. She came complete with daddy issues- unresolved issues from her childhood and bad relationships issues. She piled all that one me before I realized it too late.
She was very unforgiving- extremely resentful and boasted of her resentfulness as though it was something to be proud of. She was the angriest woman I have ever met in my life. I kept thinking it must be something with me, I must be making her upset.
She also had this close buddy of hers who was Gay and they used to hangout often. She would also start crying for no apparent reason- for example in the middle of sex. She would then recall some sexual encounter from the past when I asked what was wrong. And I kept thinking it must be me!
This woman was not only crazy, but plain evil. I feel really pissed at her, but also feel sorry for her because I feel she has no control over her life.
The relationship lasted 2 months.
3. By borderline racist ^^^^ I mean: completely racist, gender-biased, ignorant, and offensive to multiple demographics. Incorrect both politically, and anthropologically.
hmm…
Well if I were to pigeon-hole you, (which I smugly have the right, as you have pigeon-holed my sex)…
my guess is…
A highly critical, over-sensitive (but concealingly so), theater major? Performer? I mention the background because of the quirky and invasively robust style of writing, only consistent with that of an ego-inflated eccentric, or of a collumnist at TeenVogue (5 steps to tell if he has a CRUSH on you!).
Well.
My guess is it began with
1. a girl infatuation, [some perfectly nice lady]
2. it ended badly, and
3. you were mystified as to why..
…as result, your late night ruminations, popped ego, and mid-state post-adolescent crisis has conglomerated into a tumbleweed of an obsession as to WHY did she ignore me in the library AGAIN.
..well.. “it couldn’t have been you”…. or your annoying tendency to make poorly timed, inappropriate jokes…
No, as the logical (but excessive) fellow that you are), you were compelled to find reason. This seed has now grown into the deformed mass that is your generalized opinion of the single, female population.
Your solution to avoid another unnecessary hearbreak?
compile a neat little list to summarize what to “look out for” next so you can cleanly divide the worthy from the unsuitable. THEN if rejection ensues, at least it will be justified, as it was from an acceptable mate.
Yes, that’s right. You took the LIBERTY of writing (for you and your frat-house, no doubt) the key to choosing the most turquoise of the peacocks (1).
But, my little Romeo, these ignorant (borderline racist) observations will only serve to narrow your already vantaged vision, as you continue to miss the single purpose of this useless ritualistic practice we call dating:
We (2) are young, stupid, eager, and, really, only are in pursuit of a feeling. The feeling of acceptance, approval, satiation, companionship,________, fill in the appropriate void..
By compiling such a list you are only eliminating your chances to recognize that someone who, although may leave you shattered on the beer stained carpet, fit you like a puzzle piece, and helps transforms the routine trudgery of life into some devastatingly colorful, but beautiful adventure, worth the effort of every strained, continued step.
Lose your critical judgment. But keep close your personal standards. With that, be able to recognize that, just maybe, under one of those tattooed, caked up individuals, lies a temple-bound, Indian Princess.
Footnotes:
1. Note that female peacocks are not blue. This was merely a metaphor.
2. “We” referring to:
Specifically: the college population
Generally: the human race as a whole
This article is correct. Happy, positve uncomplicated people are enjoyable to be around (men 7 woman). Why bring problems into your life. reading Ugh’s reply sounds like shes a very angry and defensive person and of course not happy to hear all of this, pushed a few button. but then when youv’e got yourself tattooed up theres no turning back so why wouldn’t she be defensive. People know what they like and tattoos on a woman don’t look good. They are fashionable at the moment but when the next generation come along and want to rebel it will be tats are uncool and fashion will reject tats. Can’t just take them off like a pair of jeans now can we!!
good luck getting laid.
You gonna make biscuits? You gonna make biscuits? You gonna make BISCUITS?! YOU GONNA MAKE BISCUITS!??????
A few other points:
Alot of these signs are not new, I’ve always looked for most of them. Not to be an ass, but most women hate it if they’re not the center of attention (esp. hot chicks).
Men and women respond to things very differently. A dad screws with his daughters wiring, she goes and gets a tattoo. Screws the neighborhood punk. Becomes a lesbian. Becomes bitchy about everything. Becomes a stripper.
A dad screws with his son’s wiring and he goes and punches a wall or dry-humps a pillow etc…..something temporarily stupid.
Ladies don’t be offended, this is not aimed at all of you, just a large percentage of you. It’s just as hard to find a good man out there.
I can’t remmeber the name of the lady that was on a radio show awhile back that I heard. She was a lesbian that made herself look like a man for an experiment. She got a job, joined a bowling league
became friends with the other guy co-workers. She said she wanted to see what it was like to be a guy. She also said the thing that shocked her was when she approached other women and said that even before she got to the woman she was already less than zero. Like she had to prove she had the right to even talk to the woman. She said it pissed her off and she thought “I get women alot prettier than you b***h, as a woman”. She said she couldn’t believe that even the “uglier” girls had “attitude”. Her conclusion was that it was tough being a guy trying to approach women because you’re already beneath alot of them. She said she had a new-found respect for men when trying to approach a woman.
Really ladies, stop holding yourself up on such high pedestals. Look at the stars without makeup and you’ll see what a sham alot of women who think they are super-hot are.
Call me what you want. Shallow, ugly, a*****e…whatever. The fact is, I’m a good-looking (or so I’ve been told by women) confident, smart guy that knows what he’s looking for. Ladies you ever see that good-looking guy that’s not falling all over himself to come talk to you and constantly praise you? The one that intrigues you and makes you think “why is he not giving me attention like all of these other idiots? I think I’ll go talk to him”. There’s a reason we weren’t trying to talk to you. Well, that’s me, and probably the majority of the guys posting here. Except for the ones that think they are somehow going to win favor with you by agreeing with you.
Do you ever wonder why your relationships are chaotic? Why your man cheats on you? Why you are rarely happy? Are you happy only when you’re out drinking? It’s the kind of person you’re attracting to you by the way you act.
Ladies, we love you because you are you, not us. If we want to find ourselves in a woman, we’re probably not looking for a woman.
The bottom-line is be a woman. Not a trashy, skanky, nasty wench. If that makes you mad, then that probably applies to you. Please be what we are not, not what we are. That’s what attracts us to you in the first place. Alot of the men that agree with most of this list are your “straight”, “non-emo” type guys.
So many TV shows trash men. How we are dogs, we cheat, we lie. Alot of those things are true, for some men. As alot of these things are true for some women. It’s all about perception, and people only perceive what you show them.
I follow almost all these rules, for I believe in them also. If you’re a girl with a tattoo and it’s not a butterfly on your ankle(maybe even that too)any guy if he’s not lying, will automatically think “whore”. The guys that don’t, have issues too. I see alot of these girls and I think “I’m sorry daddy touched you, but do we all have to suffer your stupidity”? Girls not having other girl friends is a sign that you are socially inept. A guy will never fully trust a girl with mainly guy-friends. If so, he has problems too. Or the girl is hot and she is an attention-whore and loves flaunting around in front of the guys to show them what they can’t have. The only reason women read this and get mad is because there is obviously some truth to it. Oh and I’ve been happily married for almost 2 years now, and I mangaed to find a woman that’s none of these things and is a great person. Ladies if you don’t like the fact that men don’t want trailer-park whores, do us all a favor and become a lesbian. Like Dave Chappelle said “chivalry is dead because women fucking killed it”.
I don’t see whats wrong with to many guy friends? I grew up with three brothers, I work in a garage with guys, so most of my friends are GUYS, go figure. It doesn’t make you a slut or mean that you have Daddy issues or problems with other girls it’s just what you’ve grown up with, most of the time the people with common interests to me are guys! why would I want to hang out with a bunch of barbies that have nothing interesting to say? Don’t get me wrong I do have girl friends that I get along with awsomely.
Also I’ve been in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years
So this means that guys can date… pretty much noone. Awesome.
Obviously as a female myself my opinion is questionable but still I feel inclined to have input.
I do think all of the above are correct to some extent. I think it’s not so much a red flag a guy should see, but better yet a yellow flag as in a warning saying, “Hey be careful.”
Though I’m more inclined to disagree with the honorable mention because a really athletic girl just wants to stay in shape. There’s nothing wrong with being competitive. In fact I know many guys personally who like a really athletic girl who gives them a run for their money. (no pun intended)
This is the biggest pile of s**t I have ever read. Thank god I’m a lesbian. Just…thank the gods.
oh ya. this article nails it.
all you complaining bitches prove it as you all try to argue the one or more “Ten Red Flags” that applies to you.Simply proving the author’s point.
p.s…. kill yourself… judging from the article you wrote…. youd be doing yourself and everybody else a favor. waste of space
yea soooooo this is gay. I love chix with tats … just not too many of them, and tastefully done ones. Get with the program dipshit article writer whome still lives at home with him mother and beats off using his own tears as lubricant, and has been dumped more times than he can count BECAUSE THE CHIX YOU GET WITH DONNNNNTTTT LIKEEEEEE YOUUUUUUU, annnnnnnnnd your gay
and p.s. …. i am not a b***h nor am i a phsycho, and i know several lovely women with tattoos who are good people. dont judge a book by the cover ya sexist b******s
Ok obviouslyyyy im not really named harry johnson, in fact im a girl lol. WITH TATTOOS… and am also a tattoo artist… and I really dislike that the number 1 thing to avoid when looking for a girl is tattoos??????????? that is the dumbest thing i have ever heard. get your facts straight … i am not covered but yes i have a few and love what i have, and so does my bf. so shuv it!
Nunya sounds like a huge b***h. Anyone surprised? Mostly guy friends and a tattoo fan. Thank you Nunya for another perfect example of a femi-b***h with daddy issues. Now, please go do something about it.
Most of my friends are male simply because most girls get on my nerves. I do not look bad in tattoos, and I am going to speak my god damn fucking mind because I don’t care that it intimidates whiney little pussies like you. Grow the f**k up and stop being so god damn sexiest.
Just stay away from American women entirely. Look for some nice Asian girls. South Korean women, not from Seoul or maybe some mainland Chinese girls who’ve recent left the farming life. They’re not as crazy like tattooed American women who’ve always got something to prove about something.
“doesn’t seem to impress other females as being a worthwhile person.”
The last thing any woman wants to do is impress some dumb b***h. Guys are easy to chill with, and if you find good ones they wont judge, almost all my friends are guys because there’s no drama
Though if I had to hang out with the idiot who wrote this article I’d hang myself.
was this written by a jilted female who just lost her man to an outgoing, tattooed, counterculture girl? because this is the mos plausible explanation i can come up with.
This article: outright misogynism and propagation of gender stereotypes.
Dave: not even worth mentioning
This article: Correct
UGH: Lesbian in denial
hahahah man congrats man ,, nice job you stirred them up
red flag for tattoos? and so many daddy issues? sir, you have got it all wrong.
i am a female, with divorced parents, who drinks at bars, hangs out with mostly men, with tattoos and piercings that look fucking tasty. so f**k you, you judgmental a*****e. =]
i hope you never get a girlfriend because you’re obviously oblivious to the realm of women, considered you took most women out of the equation by constantly judging them by completely irrelevant ideas.
i am not bitchy, nor do i have daddy issues, nor are women repelled by me. i actually get along with girls great, i just don’t necessarily like them. they usually like me though, but women are too much to handle for me most of the time.
it’s not because i’m constantly rejected by female companions that i deem men more worthy of my time, it’s just i was raised with my brother, and such.
Oh and one more thing, I don’t agree with the article completely. However, I do believe you need to have a mixture of these things to be non-marriage material, and not just have it in a sense where it really is not a big deal. I’m saying that when I mentioned my ex’s I’m talking about Extreme! When I meant Daddy issues, I meant that they saw their dad beat their mother. Too many guy friends, this girl only had guy friends…overly forward, she offered to blow me in the school yard in high school…Make Up, my ex was in the bathroom for 2 hours, eventually I found out it wasn’t for me, but for every other guy out there…so yeah I agree with the article to a certain degree (in extreme conditions). For tattoos, I think they are the sexiest things on earth, but only in places that I like and that I can see. A girl that puts tattoos in obvious places that attracts men is asking for it so I’m a bit in between on this one. Anyway, a lot of people’s comments are really negative on this article…Seriously, you’re not a whore or a slut or whatever if you got 1 or 2 of these on the list, but when you’re pushing 4 the chances are pretty high that you may be looking for the wrong kind of attention. As Dave Chappelle said, you look like a slut, smell like a slut, dress like a slut, but you ain’t a slut, what? That may be true, but it sure as hell is confusing. Regardless, someone like me that’s looking for wifey is still going to have red flags. Everyone else can enjoy their meaningless one nighters.
Ok, soooo I dated these two girls in the past. This is kind of funny cause ethnically they are both different. What makes it interesting is that they both have completely different issues, except for Daddy issues.
African American ex had:
2. Daddy Issues
4. Too Many Guy Friends
7. Overly Forward
10. Easily Offended, Extremely Poubty, Etc
Chinese ex had:
1. Tattoos
2. Daddy Issues
3. Make-up Extremities
8. Hangs Out Quite Often At Bars, Clubs, Etc
Both Girls eventually cheated on me and left me…I’m actually surprised that a lot of people are against this article. I feel that it’s SPOT ON!
My Puerto Rican ex had no issues mentioned above and she was probably the best girlfriend I’ve ever had my whole entire life! We aren’t together now because of family issues. I hope we can be together though cause she definitely fits the bill. I’m definitely following this red flag with any girl I meet. As soon as I see something I’m OUT!
@Lauren, I do think you really tried to sound rational, but.
Stop blaming technology, the media, and the male establishment for all that has gone wrong with postmodern women. You sound like some tiresome regurgitation of Women’s Studies 101 at any given public college in the country.
Not sure why you think this article is comparing men to women. It’s not. Did you read the title? It’s about women. Only women. If you want to write an article about men, you should submit one.
And no. Tattoos are always trashy. Always.
Thanks for providing yet another example of the girls this piece talks about.
I have genuinely listened to your point of views, with an open mind. I hope you listen to the way I see things with an open mind, since growing up as a girl, I see the other side of things.
1. First of all! Tattoos are an opinion…yes a good 80% of women have ugly, retarded or just plain trashy tattoos but when I see some ridiculously nice tattoos on a girl or guy, that’s when it becomes beautiful. It’s art. Obviously something you know nothing about.
2. Daddy issues? Really? The fact that you not only bring this up in this article but that it’s your SECOND point, shows that you yourself have ‘Mommy Issues’. In fact, this entire article proves that point so you really should have just stopped right there. There’s actually a word for it, it’s called hypocrite. Maybe you’re familiar with it? Yes? No?
3. Make up…Sadly, this is what girls think you want them to look like. Who’s fault is that? I blame you, but I also blame the media.
4. Too many guy friends. This is my category. I don’t have any chick friends. Not really. This isn’t easy for me, but all the girls where I live are stuck up conceited rich bitches. Also, in high school, I had an equal amount of male and female friends. I was just a nice girl and I also grew up in a small town. So just because she has a lot of guy friends doesn’t make her a whore. Now, let’s go through your phone and Facebook friends list and see how many chicks you’re friends with? I bet that more than likely you would sleep with almost all of them if they would let you, but you’d still call THEM the whore.
5. Super whores? HAHAHHAHA oh wow. You’re right, they’re probably desperate, but not whores. Anyway, the real reason for this is because of their generation. We have grown up using screens to communicate. Our generation hasn’t learned how to properly communicate face to face. This is a rapidly increasing problem and can explain numerous problems of teens today such as relationships, school work, work ethic/ability and unfortunately much more. Read up if you’re going to report on something publicly.
6. WHAT?! One in every billion girls doesn’t want to marry. One in every ten guys WANTS to. A tad exaggerated? Doubt it.
7. Although this is true, be careful. We are so confused on whether to sleep with you or not. You call us a b***h and a prude if we don’t but a slut and a whore if we do. It’s a lose/lose for us and win/win for you. Girls, just don’t give it up.
8. I agree. Same goes for guys.
9. Also agree. On the opposite hand, a huge red flag is when a guy is OBSESSED with trying to be smarter than you. Can you say control freak? And Mommy issues?
10. Shouldn’t everybody avoid an emotionally unstable person? I don’t really understand why you think this only applies to girls…
Questionably athletic? WHAT!?!?! Okay I thought number two was bad…
A guy who is too athletic is the worst. Conceited, insensitive, cheating, lying…mommy issues…
Anyway, maybe you should get the story from both sides before writing such a bogus review.
Sounds like the poster has “mommy” issues which has led to misogynistic views. Snap!
This article is worthless. The writer should stay away from women because he couldn’t handle a real one. Too many guy friends? Overly athletic? Overly forward? Maybe this dope wants to be back in the 1950s again but some males like how things are shaping up in this century.
This was… Stupid :) Extremely biased and extreme. This is only a good guideline if you are either very very conservative or just a bigot.
These rules are 90% ac accurate 75% of the time. That creeping feeling crawling up the back of your spine is you realizing that stereotypes and generalization often have valid origins.
I disagree on principle, however, with the Daddy Issues. If it weren’t for those clingy attention starved vengeful forsaken daughters, I’d NEVER get laid. Oh sure, it’s a miserable event afterwards…
you’re an idiot
Given the hostility of American females toward men, and their propensity for making false rape accusations, the wisest advice is to pass them by in favor of immigrants or foreign exchange students. There should be plenty to go around since only about 40 percent of college students are male. Be selective. Be very selective.
What SCUM! This is the most absurd thing I have ever read in my life.
This article is absolute crap. I agree with the majority of people here who say that you’re an idiot.
I honestly laughed at this, you seem rather against girls being even mildly masculine aren’t you? Or outgoing for that matter.
Someone’s a little more than “insecure”.
Just a few things I’d like to point out whilst cracking up at this whole ordeal:
1. successful troll is successful
2. for those women who are denouncing the author’s validity: 10. Easily Offended, Extremely Poubty, Etc – In short, avoid girls who can’t take a joke (also known as: you fall into that category)
3. these are red flags, for the most part, the author’s intent seems to be to tell you to be CAREFUL of women who have these signs, not to completely ignore them as potential significant others, so read a bit more carefully when you reply to someone’s article.
4. along the same lines as the last point, most of the “women” responding to the post that are up in arms are misquoting or misrepresenting the statements of the original author (e.g. “Apparently any and all girls are whores with daddy issues?” noting that the author separated daddy issues from every other issue, and not every point he made was about the woman being a whore, such as flag 6; also, from “madame”: “Though I’m not THAT anal with trendy stuff.” If this IS true, it makes your paragraph useless as a counterpoint, which it seems intended to be, because he was flagging EXTREMELY trendy women)
so all in all: IT’S THE INTERNETS, LEARN TO PLAY THE GAME
Although this is not ideal guideline, it is very close to observed statistic. I see is alot of “Loud Obsesive Compulsive Slutz” girls and “Spoiled Daddy” girls become very aggressive when confronted with this. Once again proves one basic point; majority of girls (still high on hormones) judge facts and events based on emotional response, like children; if they don’t like something, even if its the truth, they will hate you and act like a bi7ches.
so you can’t take the heat, huh? I got news forya kiddo, theyre ALL psycho bitches. It just boils down to who can hack it, and if you can’t you’ll just have to whack it.
Punk-ass. Limp-dick. Fag.
So…okay. I don’t understand how this article is helpful. It pretty much makes all women “someone to avoid,” and thus any man who really takes this to heart will be alone. Plus, I’d love to see a counter-article where someone says all the things that a woman should avoid in a man, what are “red flags” etc etc. I’m sure that would be waaaaaaay more interesting since I have seen way more woman than men put up with BS from some a*****e just to keep a man in their life. Let’s be fair here, nobody is perfect. Not even the d*******g who wrote this. :)
And…what’s with the “Daddy Issues” bullshit? I know plenty of guys who have Daddy Issues, and they’re just as bad as any girl I’ve known. And don’t get me started dudes with “Mommy Attachment Syndrome…” Oh, can be a nightmare!
haha, I think this article was written by a woman. The tone is totally not that of a man.
Besides, what this person just described is a gray blob. Very average and boring.
Man you are fucking stupid to write such an article about girls.
Personally I liked the article and generally agree and would try to recognise the same warning signs if I was single and looking for a girlfriend. I think the most offensive part is that it is pretty acurate about a good number of ladies out n about. It can be challenging for a mirror held up to someone and then be told watchout for this. I think there is too much of an expectation on girls and guys to be individual and different to the extent that in its persuit you just end up conforming to difference. Trying to express your own unique individuality seems to be incresingly amounting to a self-obession and basic narrcisism.Im probly going off track here so prehaps its easier for some woman to appreciate it if its flipped over..would you be into a guy that had mummy or daddy issues, was obsesive about grooming, had mostly girls for friends, was obessesed with facebook,overly forward (always coming on to the ladies), spends lots of time at bars, doesnt know much going on past his own world and easily takes offence? Well maybe that helps? The 10 points he made are generally unflattering characteristics regardless of gender. Like it or not Being female doesnt exempt you from being judged upon them either.
@author:
You make some valid points and the ‘red flags’, as you put it, are indeed signs of trouble. I should have read this article before I got married. Looking back, I was a fool for simply ignoring such basic warning signs, this post could have been just that little reminder that I needed. I guess my friends didn’t have the courage to tell me what I actually needed to hear (not what they thought I wanted to hear).
@other posters:
I’ve browsed through several of the comments and it seems like there are some very critical/defensive posts (naturally). Problem is, a select few of those make me think of how my wife would react and I can’t help but think I’m seeing the same insecurities/issues surfacing here. (However, it is also reassuring so see some level headed comments. Not simply labelling you if you disagree with the author.) Sure, the authors’ delivery comes across as being overly bias etc., but literary style aside; I think the key messages are valid points to be cautious of. Just be cautious not to write someone off at the smallest sign of trouble (none of us are perfect), but don’t close your eyes to too many of these warning signs (if your looking for a long term relationship at least).
Somebody put this on facebook as a joke. AAHH did I say Facebook!? I must be a whore or a b***h. The guy who wrote this is completely sexist, and has clearly never had a girlfriend.
How is getting a tat an expression of individuality if just about every girl has one? Very unfeminine and a turn off.
Wow, this is quite one of the most hilarious attempts at being an “authority” on the female species I have ever read. To say the writer’s opinions were juvenile, superficial, old-fashioned, sexist, fearful, and adhered to a sheep mentality would be a gross understatement. This guy seems like he would be most comfortable at a keg party with a bunch of drunk guys, who all pretend that they want relationships with women, but are mostly focused on scoring sexually with only the best-looking women/girls with some group-agreed upon pedigree. To discount anyone based on these reasons is ludicrous. People are complicated and wonderful for so many different reasons to different people – what is “too forward” for one is “gregarious and fun” to another. Someone with “daddy issues” might mesh wonderfully with a “dirty old man” or a guy that loves “taking care” of women. What is “whorish” to one might be viewed as “comfortable with their sexuality” to another. Women who are “overly athletic” to some might be kick-ass work-out/outdoor partners for a guy who’s also in good shape and athletic. A girl or woman expresses their opinions too much about political and social issues? Well, some guys like that, especially those involved in politics, social movements, and cultural studies. There’s someone for everyone, and once you’re comfortable with your own self, and your place in the world, you’ll find people you like.
yeah and you said that people who get one are probably white trash skanks or wannabe porn stars or the tattoos look ugly etc. i feel like you can’t win either way in expressing yourself.
@Justine,
lol, yes, getting a tattoo to impress someone else would generally be considered a sign of insecurity.
this is pretty fucked up, i gave it a chance and tried to be open minded but i realized its really opinionated and kind of made me feel like i couldnt do anything without having something wrong with me
i dont think you should go putting people down that have issues of abandonment. and apparently everyone according to you is a b***h or whore.
and the whole questionable lesbian thing just because some women want to achieve at impressing a man by being athletic…i mean what the hell are you on?
people get tattoos to enjoy life and express who they are
you only have ONE life, so i say live it up and if you get a tattoo and nobody else thinks it looks good or you regret,so what?thats still a page in your book of life, you should get things to make yourself happy or else YOU would probably say they were an insecure whore if they got a tattoo to impress someone else. your probably not getting any…and for good reason
@madam kickyourass
hi5. we might just be twins.
I’m only 17 but I’m well off enough to say that this is horribly generalized.
not every girl out there is a whorebag with ‘daddy issues’ because of certain characteristics; that’s terribly misinterpreted psychoanalysis.
My psychoanalysis on who ever it is that wrote this is simply that there’s a absence of general insight in the person probably caused by a lack of un-awkward social experience when interacting with other people, creating a sense of rejection by a certain group of people/s, specifically generally attractive women that looked this poor fellow up and down and thought .. ‘f**k no’.
probably women that did have tattoos, were surrounded by male friends, fit (/other wise described as ‘overly athletic’ ..wtf) and were hanging out at a bar/pub/club.
all in all, whoever wrote this article is, as i theorize, releasing some resentments held against women who probably dumped his ass for appearing to be an overly arrogant and self absorbed typical male in his early-mid 20’s, to make up for his socially awkward insecurities.
After reading this, I thought of you as one of these:
1. A guy who had an unhealthily close relationship with his mother and has this warped view of women as a result
2. A “bro” – in other words, a total douche who can’t appreciate women
3. Someone who has had bad experiences with one of these women “types”. Because everyone is cut from the same mould right?
Pick one. Maybe more than one. Or should I leave the generalisations up to you?
Pro tip: My girlfriend falls into a couple of these categories and we are happy.
@Fuckyou,
Thanks for providing another example of the types of people that support the things mentioned in the article. You babble unintelligibly, offer no examples, and are obviously talking about… yourself. You must be one bitter, pompous lady. And oh yah… most tattoos are not “art.”
I have so so many issues with this article. Let me see, people to avoid in general: those deluded individuals who judge people off of certain aspects of their complex lives, who disregard others who don’t fit their categorizing. F**K YOU AUTHOR.
Who gives a f**k if a girl has a tattoo. It doesn’t change who they are, it can often be a stupid mistake, but what gives you the right to toss them aside for a piece of body art. One bonus of getting a tattoo is avoiding all of the close-minded fucks who judge them.
“Variations include girls that have watched way too many Evanescence music videos, girls that had an ex-boyfriend die in a surfing accident and have branded his name onto their wrist, hipster bitches, white trash skanks, wannabe porn stars, etc.” You sir, are trash. Seriously. I could never have respect for you.
Hmmm, you forgot to add that all women should stay pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen.
Good luck finding a girlfriend.
Apparently everything that`s ever wrong with females has to do with daddy issues.
This is a bullshit article from a fat dude who`s only girl friend was his hand.
Sheezus. I can’t believe I just read this tripe. Pure douchebaggery.
wow, this top 10 list pretty much sums up the kind of girl i GO FOR. you stay complicated and irrational, ladies. i wouldn’t have you any other way ;)
@Saku Filth
You sound pretty superficial, good luck with that.
This is ridiculous.
I am a girl with several tattoos, a s**t load of piercings, crazy make-up and crazier style, a ton of guy friends because girls do my head in, use social networking a lot to keep in touch with my loved ones and for WORK, love indie bands for their unspoiled beauty, incredibly forward and confident, spend a lot of time at the bar with my friends, clueless with “common sense” and well known trivia and also a little unhinged.
Yet I am happily in love with a perfect guy, who thinks I’m sexy and perfect.
Screw your list.
Seriously, girls, stop getting UGLY tattoos!
You do make some sensible points. Some women, such as women who are overly clueless and are easily offended, don’t make for lasting relationships. Women who wear too much make-up do tend to be insecure or shallow, though not all of them are like that. From what I can glean, however, this article is also saying that women are not allowed to be athletic or competitive, have their own individual opinions, socialize both online and in real life or be friends with like-minded people because of something so trivial as being different genders.
-There is nothing wrong with a woman staying fit and healthy. It is a basic human right to live long and happily, and exercise lowers risks of diseases and injuries.
-If a man wants a tattoo, it’s allowed, but if it’s a woman, it’s wrong? This is the 21st century, people. It is recognized that everyone is allowed to express their individuality, and if that expression comes in the form of body art, so be it. Saying that tattoos make a woman less feminine is like a “tweenage” girl saying her friend has no taste for not liking Twishite. Mainstream media, designer clothes and popular brands don’t appeal to everyone, don’t force people to or categorize those who don’t.
-Social sites like Facebook or MySpace are there to enable us to communicate with friends if we can’t or don’t want to leave the house (eg a flu has left you bedridden) or to meet people all over the world without blowing money on flight and accommodation expenses. There’s nothing wrong with liking them.
-Once again, I point out that we are living in modern times. Friends are for spending time with. You are friends with someone, even someone of the opposite sex, because you enjoy their company and they make you laugh and feel good about yourself, not because you want to screw with them. If you want a romantic or sexual relationship, that’s what boyfriends or girlfriends are for. If people slept with every single friend they have, everyone would be bisexual.
I hope you aren’t offended by anything I’ve said.
This refers to just about every female in existance, such a BS article…
Just want to say I am a guy, and this is the most ridiculous pile of s**t I have ever read that supposedly was about the opposite sex.
I have to say, I think this guy hit a nerve, and has some valid points. Also, some abhorrent generalizations.
The ad-hominem attacks by the women here are particularly telling. Address the content, not the maker, and you won’t look like you’re in desperate denial.
Unfortunately for the writer, the only really valid point is this: beware of women with issues. These could be daddy, mommy, depression, abandonment, or whatever… but think with your head instead of your johnson (or your wooha, ladies) and you’ll end up being more happy in the long run.
Make quick work of deciding if you can deal with any issues that crop up, because everyone has them.
Avoid becoming the “knight in shining armor” because a healthy relationship is reliant on BOTH parties being mature adults who have minds, talents, and (stable) emotions to bring together to make a better whole. What you are to the other in the beginning, will be what you are for a long time, and when you try to change that prepare for a meltdown. You may think you’re going to come in a “fix” that other person, but you can’t. All you’re doing is adding the new problem of making them co-dependent (and likely yourself).
If you find yourself gravitating to fixer-uppers, then you should probably take some time off of amorous relations and find yourself before diving into a new one. IMO, good advice whether you’re a man or a woman.
This is the stupidest, most sexist load of bullshit I have ever heard. And I’m not a “femi nazi” as you put it, I’m just a regular person with common sense. Could you possibly generalize any more? It sounds to me like it’s less you avoiding the chicks and more the chicks avoiding you. You obviously have no idea how to approach a woman. You sound like a terrified, bitter little boy that never gets laid and must have gotten burned somewhere along the way. If women are so “annoying”, maybe you should try men? Also, learn to fucking spell, moron.
Natasha sounds like a self-worshiping, but rather slutty, type of girl. You can tell by her writing, like the fact that her words relate in no way to the article.
(In short)Your whole article really sucks. Find a new hobby/career. By the way out spoken, musically inclined, intelligent women with tattoos are astonishing. Who you are speaks for itself in your writing.
I mostly agree with this article. Some people, lets face it, shouldn’t have tatoos. You think they’re cute, but they’re kind of unnecessary. Anti-trendy hipsters. Clueless chicks. I’ve seen these girls walking around and I just have to cringe. And by the way – this article isn’t aimed at ‘every girl’ out there. There are girls who have daddy issues but don’t feel the need to take it out on their boyfriends. This thing is just a list of bad character traits. It’s not like a checklist of ‘if she has any one of these symptoms, run away’ – they’re just warning signs. Although if you can’t figure any of these things out for yourself, then you deserve the girl.
This is the dumbest article I have ever read… Apparently according to this guy every type of girl has daddy issues and is a total whore. I disagree with a lot of these especially the one about having a lot of male friends… I have always had a lot of male friends because I can’t stand the way a lot of women are really judgemental and superficial and I like that guys have something interesting to talk about instead of just random gossip. (“OMG did you see Katie? she’s so fat now” blah blah blah) It definitely doesn’t mean I am sleeping with all of them and I most definitely dont have “daddy issues”. I also happen to have a tatoo on my neck and everyone I know thinks it’s cute soooo… I say f**k you sir. Maybe you should try being gay, since you clearly don’t like women.
@Madi,
Male is a species? Really? You might be the dumbest-ass girl to comment yet!
Alllrrrriiight, you’re an idiot, dude. Apparently any and all girls are whores with daddy issues??? Especially if they have tattoos and guy friends? You’re probably just pissed off because girls don’t like YOU so you assume that makes us all man-haters. You are a perfect example of why I’ve almost completely lost hope in the male species.
Wow…this is all bullshit, except for nine, I’ll agree that is a red-flag. However none of this attempt to psycho-bable is true it’s probably based on some loser who got his ass handed to him in a slew of relationships and seeks revenge, “Desires nothing more than to constantly attempt to show you up mountain climbing or weight-lifting? Run, run, as fast as you can, away from this type of female. She probably had some bitter encounter with a cop one day and is now a questionable lesbian.” Seriously?
^^looks like the bitches who are described in the article are angry.
Writer is 100% a virgin or a d*******g — regardless, there are only two outcomes for people like you. You die alone, or you end up with some little miserable suburban existence with a frigid wife who secretly hates you, two kids who resent you, and an unfulfilling job selling real estate. Either way, good luck with that, a*****e.
Passing Through–
Wow don’t you sound intelligent and classy! “c**t losers”< Do those words even go together?
"And face facts bitches, tattoos are tramp stamps no matter where you put ‘em. Might as well shave your head and ride a Harley you fucking c**t losers. LOL"
Hey Pamela wanna “F”
It’s hilarious to see the whores completely wigging the f**k out for getting called on their bullshit.
And face facts bitches, tattoos are tramp stamps no matter where you put ’em. Might as well shave your head and ride a Harley you fucking c**t losers. LOL
Okay,
where is she at? Oh yeah, I call her mom.
Wake up bros’ there bigger pigs than us and have been practicing since tea party time. Treat ’em like s— you’ll get what you want if you can stand yourself.
I agree with this list and i’m a woman
I agree with this list..for all you “people” (especially women) who are bashing this guy, you prove that women cannot handle criticsm when its deflected on other women. You’re probably the same women who will see a list like this for men and agree 100% and then start your male bashing.
It just goes to show us REAL men who see that not all women are “sugar and spice” and should be held accountable for bad behaviors but the manginas and women here think that women are “perfect angels”
Your shaming tactics dont work on us anymore and that just shows how immature you “people” really are. Its like you people expect us to accept and encourage women’s bad behaviors and flaws. A mangina will do that be I will not and better men make better choices in women.
Men should not be suckered into dating a whore or a former whore because you women think he should “look past” her “past” you wouldnt say that to a woman who was considering dating a past player would you?
This is required for all guys getting into college and dealing with the opposite sex. I’ve seen point 4 about a woman having too many guy friends in action too many times when I was in college. These chicks tend to be covert hoes. They’ll lead one guy along while giving the goods to another or two. I’ve learned that women in dating are like baseball coaches: they always have a pitcher warming up in the bullpen.
Tattoos are a given, as well. The most notable type is the lower back tattoo (a.k.a. Tramp Stamp). You pretty much know what these girls are about when they sport those tats. They always tend to wear low cut jeans showing off their arse cracks.
Daddy issues: see a woman with these, RUN!!!! Run as though heaven were before you and hell were right behind you. This woman is too far gone and will take her baggage and rage out on you. She will put you through more drama than a Shakespearean play.
I love how a lot of the posters that are in a tizzy over this attack the person and not the argument. Such ad hominems like loser and lonely have been used so much that many men have become immune to them. Hell, I’d wager that the people getting pissy over said comments are the people the comments are directed towards.
Jones, perhaps you should try finding a woman you consider reasonable and mature, and show her the article. Any woman who agrees with this article is imbecilic and obviously has some severe issues… Maybe her and the author would like to get together, it’d be a match made in heaven.
ROSA no offense but you sound like a whiny mexican b***h. FYI, popping out kids at the age of 14 and getting tattoos of roses is disgusting.
PreppyDave, you at least attempt think like a human, but you are obviously a tool who attempts to impress women on the internet instead of real life.
I’m still waiting to hear a reasonable, mature woman’s disagreement’s with this article, if there are any. I don’t necessarily support all the points, but it’s hard not to with the type of arguments being presented in the comments.
this person is a douche, enough said
I think you may have made an accidental good point.
1. Tattoos – This is like calling all art bad because of Thomas Kinkade. Also, why is this number one?
2. Daddy Issues – Yes, a lot of women have problem with men. You aren’t helping.
3. Make-up Extremities – Read point #1.
4. Too Many Guy Friends – Really only a problem if she considers women “the enemy.”
5. Obsessed with Online Social Networks – Did you need this one to make the list 10 points?
6. Extremely “Anti-Trendy” – Essentially every important intellectual thinker of any era would fall under this category. This is the essence of free thinking.
7. Overly Forward – You dislike being hit on? Are you secretly 90?
8. Hangs Out Quite Often At Bars, Clubs, Etc – I suppose you only meet girls on christiancafe.com or is that too much like myspace?
9. Extremely Clueless – No kidding, you actually got one. In fact the whole article would have been more powerful if it was just a top 1 list. Actually, you should simply not write articles.
10. Easily Offended, Extremely Poubty, Etc – Et cetera again? This is the laziest top 10 list ever written by an easily offended, extremely pouBty, anonymous misogynist.
Good luck to you sir. If you can’t change this world to your liking, you can always try some place else.
What a piece of crap. I wonder – did some tattooed, athletic chick who doesn’t like mainstream media and have lots of guy friends turn you down? Also – if someone is checking into social networks when you are together… well.. they just aren’t that into you. But then… I can see why… Sounds like the writer is a sheep to me….
You are a perfect example of a rectal-cranial inversion.
Nah, the fail is assuming someone is insecure because they have a tat. Shallow is judging a personality based on looks before you’ve even met them. Stupid is judging a person you don’t know based on something someone else wrote who doesn’t know the person either. Silly is classifying a very large group of people based on experience with only a few. My wife is very successful and manages a lot of employees.. she is far from insecure. I’d say take the red flags with a grain of salt and judge people on a case by case basis…there will always be exceptions to these rules. I’m sure there are people who don’t have tats you should be running from, maybe even the person who wrote this article.
Yawn, tattoos are for insecure people, which is… quite a bit more shallow than people with discretion. Sorry, but you fail. Anyway glad it’s working out for ya guys.
My wife of 16 years had a tat when I met her and has another one now. She may be easily the best woman I’ve ever met. Glad I didn’t read anything this stupid before I met her. Good luck with your running away from women for superficial reasons thing, you’re probably going to miss out on some really cool women because you’re so shallow.
Anonymous Guy, stop trying to sound like a player. You are not on FRIENDS.
NYC is fucking gay. Bunch of wankers.
Stupdiest article by some guy who obviously has “girl issues.”
It’s a red flag if a girl hangs out a lot at bars and clubs?? Huh, i’m from NYC and that’s what everyone does here. I would think the same for most ppl living in a big city.
tattoos?? i don’t have any but why should this be a red flag? the red flag should be what kind of tat it is and where….not to mention that guys w/ lot of tats might like girls who have a lot of tats.
overly athletic and too many guy friends?? You seem way insecure, dude.
Okay, a lot of that s**t is bullshit. You can’t just judge someone like that I mean there sluts but it’s not that hard to tell but you don’t tell by those things. Who ever thought that up is a retard and knows nothing about psychology and cannot tell by one thing that a girl is a slut or a crazy b***h. You suck.
Okay, a lot of that s**t is bullshit. You can’t just judge someone like that I mean there sluts but it’s not that hard to tell but you don’t tell by those things. Who ever thought that up is a retard and knows nothing about psychology and can tell by one thing that a girl is a slut or a crazy b***h. You suck.
this author obviously knows nothing about women
Only mildly insulting, lovely. It’s not all that big, you’re looking a a closeup. If you’re at all educated the last thing you’d assume is I’m involved with a gang. It’s Latin and Celtic, it’s not exactly the style a and would choose. I’m curious about how you think it makes me look less feminine though, considering I have a very feminine body, and I’m in the beauty industry… Explain that one for me?
@Petronix, okay so you didn’t say it looks feminine I guess, you said YOU are feminine. In any case, even though your tattoo design is kinda cool, it still makes you look less feminine in my eye, although we can’t see a real view of how it looks on you. Anyway its kinda cool but pretty large and I would think at first “this girl looks pretty and fun-loving” and then later if I saw that huge tattoo I would probably think “ok nevermind, is she part of some sort of gang?”. You have cool hair btw.
I never said it was feminine Jinx. It’s a Celtic knot, a symbol for feminism, the circle of life, the holy trinity, protection, and the three stages of a womans life. I think flowers and butterflies look awful, although I’m getting one to cover a scar on my thigh soon, just because a flower in ink is prettier than the mess it is now.
My photobucket, with my tattoo being the first image. You can’t call this one distasteful, location, and any possible meanings ae far from trashy.
The password is Paranoid_Angel
http://s936.photobucket.com/albums/ad209/_-Petronix-_/RealMe/http://s936.photobucket.com/albums/ad209/_-Petronix-_/RealMe/
@Petronix, and any other tattoo girls, please post links to photos of your tattoo so readers can judge if they are tasteful and feminine. Cuz frankly I don’t think its possible, no offense. Even flowers and butterflies look “hard” and trashy to me.
Fish, if they just want to ask you out, they’re not friends. Friends don’t need an ulterior motive to hang out with you. They just want to get laid.
Juice, you’re entitled to your opinion, though as a girl with a tattoo, who is far from trashy, I am inclined to disagree with you. I’m extremely feminine, and don’t see how a tattoo could possibly make me look dirty or trashy.
Fish sounds like a huge b***h, no wonder girls stay away from her.
Most of these are s**t, but number four is ESPECIALLY s**t. I have a lot of guy friends because, guess what, I happen to have a lot of guy friends. Most of them are the I’m-too-afraid-to-ask-you-out-so-I’ll-be-nice-instead type. And that means I’m a “total whore”? Kiss my ass.
this is the BIGGEST load of crap ive ever read. whatever man wrote this obviously had MOMMY issues.
man, you need to get laid. but don’t worry i’m sure you’ll find a insecure girl with enough daddy issues that will fall for you. you just need to get a myspace page. ‘couse i’m sure as hell no other one would want you if you talk this kind of crap.
Just like beauty is subjective, so are the things we look for in a mate. I really don’t see anything wrong with the list. If you are looking for someone relatively well adjusted there are some very legitimate things to avoid listed here.
Plus, quite frankly, I agree that tattoos look like trash on girls. I don’t care where they are or how tasteful it’s supposed to be, it just looks dirty and they are NOT feminine. Yes, men can pull it off. Men are not supposed to be feminine. You’re supposed to be pretty.
If you’re some kind of feminist woman then more power to you but then why are you reading this article?
I’m a 21 year old female, and agree with most of what you’ve said. I don’t agree with your stance on tattoos, I have one on my upper back. It has personal meaning to me and is very tasteful. I see a tattoo as an art form and don’t criticize people based on their self expression. That’s just me. I’ve been with women who have daddy issues and I completely agree, they’re not worth your time. That said, if my boyfriend agreed with this article we wouldn’t be together.:P Everything else you’ve said seems to be summed up with “Don’t date a crazy, bitchy, narcissistic, insecure, whore”. It was quite a lengthy article to say something so simple and straight forward.
you and andrew
and you sound like a stupid b***h
So the girl has had a s**t life you should ignore her? Ever think to try and take care of someone that needs help?
@Kevin, are you gay? Or a girl, masquerading as a guy, more likely.
S**t article, I’m a guy and I love tattooed women! I would def hit that girl in that picture. Actually almost the things you listed are just stupid. I like what Wah Wah said.
What a load of bullshit!
This is head on. Stop bitching that you think that you fit the catagory because you have a tattoo or you dont think all girls are like that. No one cares and im expecting the same to be true for the author. Most of this crap is true but obviously does not apply to everyone. Stop being so damn self centered that everything has to be you. Also stop being annoying little faggot men that want to look cool in front of women that you’ll never get anyways. Take it for what it is which is mild entertainment mixed with a few wise words. In the end its up to you to ruin your life and there is no reason to listen to this anyways. Free speech is free for a reason. You dont have to like it.
Men to Avoid: Ones that make lists filled with generalizations.
Beauty is subjective. What turns you off physically, like a girl with tattoos, might be a real turn on for someone else. Therefore
I can’t agree with that one. I do agree that you have to look at
character and any extremes of behavior, but saying that because a
girl has male friends that that means she’s a slut or has daddy
issues is extremely unfair and makes me wonder about your issues.
You seem like a very hostile, judgemental person.
helloww thre?
wtf..
omg..i hate u so much..
ntg wring with tattoo,,nor clubbing,,nor tons of guyfriends..
u r indeed a wormbook or what???
It sounds like the author has encountered someone in 2% of the population that has Border Line Personality disorder. I’m guessing more and more people are going to have it as a result of the deterioration of a two parent household at early/influential stages of development.
If you’re offended by this article, try taking this:
http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
If you come up hot on a bunch of things, you’re just offended because you’re used to guys running in the opposite direction when they find a red flag that you’re ass is crazy.
However, you obviously can’t hold whatever that person did against you against every women you meet… you have “Girl issues” which are just as bad as [if not worse than] “Daddy issues”
This is a joke, right? Whoever wrote this is probably a sad, lonely nerd with standards far higher than he ought to have. Maybe 0.00000000001% of women might fall into a category exempt from all these “red flags”. Ridiculous.
Tattoos are beautiful. Screw off.
Michelle sounds like a dumbass c**t
You’re fucking stupid and you can’t spell for s**t. I have tattoos, I have daddy issues, I have lots of guy friends, I wear lots of make up, I love dressing up to hit the clubs, I’ve had offers from modeling agencies, BUT I’m also a successful graphic designer, making my own money and living a very happy life with an extremely awesome boyfriend (of 5 years) who’s an IT consultant. But I guess I fall into your “Red Flag” girl list.
I’m sorry if you hate girls that like to live a little. GO SUCK DICK!
@Augustus,
Are you gay? Just curious.
some people get tattoos for loved ones BESIDES boyfriends that they have lost. AND does this mean if a girl meets a GUY with tattoos that we should watch out for them. or is this merely a sexist remark only intended against girls -_-
The purpose of any article, book, or work of literature is to give the reader a window into the mind of the author. This one screams, “I’ve never been laid!!! Oh and ALL women are EEVILLL!!”
Would have been shorter to just write “avoid girls.”
Okay..bull all so bull..some girls have guy friends but uh ..oh s**t there not a whore…or oh s**t…they have great dads…this is the most WRONG WRONG PAGE EVER BOOOO….this is just so unfair…let ppl get to know ppl before we judge
terrible…sounds like somebody has girl problems.
@vincent: Highlight Milo’s text letter by letter and you’ll see that he didn’t include a space – it’s a visual artifact. Nothing like a sanctimonious prick abusing someone for something they didn’t do.
Thanks for the reminder… The wife’s sink chain is now undone so that she can be chained to the bed in our master chamber. Happy valentines day?
In other words, do as I say not as I do. Don’t forget to undo the wife’s chain from the sink
Oh, you do know that rodman paints his nails, and cross dresses, don’t you? Guess he must be gay (if you think i’m lying read his book “Bad as I Wanna Be.”)
That was cute of you to use the word ‘asinine’. I didn’t know it was dictionary.com day. Dang it I always miss that day! Some day I will be a thesaurus rex too…quite a defensive reply from you, thesaurus rex. Your emotionally distorted interpretation of this article seems to suggest that perchance you too are in possession of red flags. Perhaps a bushel of red flags? or if you live in tobacco country, a hogshead of red flags. Any road… I’ll answer some of your questions sug’. Tatoos are ok on men but only if they are badass enough. One of these badasses is denis rodman. A man who almost single handedly saved the bulls in the NBA finals vs the jazz…but I digress as i fantasize of the glory days…as far as the ‘mommy issue’ thing goes, i have no reply because i can’t stop laughing. Finally, of course it’s not ok for men to wear makeup or shop for expensive jeans because that s**t is gaaaaaay with a capital G.
So you’re saying that tattoos are ok on men, that they don’t have mommy issues, do you think that it’s ok for men to wear makeup? Should men not have too many female friends, perhaps you think that men don’t get obsessed with Online Social Networks, what about the guys who don’t run screaming into the store the minute the latest ck jean hit the rails, or worship the gods of style? I suppose it’s ok for a guy to push himself onto a woman, probably in those bars etc that you shouldn’t always hang out at. Maybe you shouldn’t be the typical braindead hillbilly that still thinks nixons in the whitehouse, or get offended when people point out how stupid your asinine and pathetic scribblings are, also the sad a******s who desperately try to show everyone how much better they are at sports than all the others, most likely had a scary encounter with a netball coach that turned them into a closet queer.
Do you like emoticons as much as you like contradicting yo self? Lissen Sissta it seems to me that the prevolent point you have been tangoing in your jive is that you enjoy to swim against the flo of da riva because average johny next to you seems to make you feel less individualistic because he gets a good vibe from coldplay and regina spektor. Thus you seek something different like the mud at the bottom of the river (aka idk what do fem bitches listen too….bjork? ya that’ll do just fine). Anywhoo, you feel different with this way of swimming. Occasionally you discover a bottom dweller (aka underground band) that excites you. Now you feel original. And you tell your normal friends in a condecending way about all these underground bands you listen too. And yet as you swim up stream further you find other fish who have discovered that same bottom dweller, that same band. wait for it……Uh oh! Looks like the hipster has become out hipzed?? Maybe you can cover it up with makeup and guy friends?? Or find a bunch of normal people who like good music even if its mainstream and then you’ll pretend to be normal and nice to them…but then you’ll just put them in your toolbox won’t ya sista?
ps. i purposely mis spelled many words because I hate hate hate grammar freaks. Happy late ground hog day.
WTF the girl in that foto is fuckin’ disgusting no wonder you are so blind to your own issues
@mysti Don’t worry sweetheart your tatoo’s just fine. It’s ok that you have guy friends too. They are supportive and understand you. This is good because of the daddy issues i assume? mrrrrm? and tats…lets play the guessing game and estimate that you’ll like the flaming skull on your left shoulder blade when your 28. but then when you’re 35 and three kids have ‘come out the door’, little timmy will ask “mommy whats that closet monster on your shoulder?” and then you’ll hope for some good removal technology to develope that won’t leave too many scars.
I like propaganda! Nice lies and bullshit poster!
what a bull s**t article filled with your own personal biases.
if you’re worried about girls who have lots of guy friends, you’re just really insecure.
also, if you knew anything about tattoos you’d know angelina doesn’t have any nice tattoos.
I like being around guys more than girls, simply because I think they’re funnier, more interesting and great to hang out with. I see girl-friends for more emotional things, and to hang out with once in a while. I think this mainly because most of my friends that are girls blabber too much about guys, crushes, boyfriends, etc. Which has become pretty tiring for me.
I don’t like much of mainstream, simply because I don’t like it. I also don’t like to wear a lot of stuff that is considered “fashionable” right now, because I have my own style, and I can manage to make it look different and unique without looking like a fashion disaster. I can name you tons of bands that are underground because, face it, most of mainstream is crap. I just consider underground or foreign bands more interesting. :) Though I’m not THAT anal with trendy stuff.
Oh and hey dude, you sure don’t look at much rock stars lately. A lot of guys like girls with a lot of make-up and tattoos. Just because some girls have tats or tons of make-up doesn’t mean they’re whores or anything. It means they like to experiment, want to be different, or just because they fucking can.
This article looks like guys shouldn’t date alternative girls or something. Dude, there’s a lot of fail in your logic. :/
P.S. If I were a guy, I would totally date that girl in the picture. She’s gorgeous!
P.P.S. There’s no “b” in “pout”! SPELLING AND GRAMMAR CHECK! HEIL GRAMMATIK!
@Anonymous, beauty is relative moron, so to try to put your limited views on others is sad, pathetic and pointless, kind of like your life. :)
@Mysti, or it’s hideous and your friends don’t have the heart to tell you
i think i just broke every rule. sad sad sad…
This article is garbage, no wonder the author stayed anonymous, cliched, sexist, pseudo logic, in essence pure drivel.
I have a tattoo on my left shoulder blade, it looks just fine. I don’t understand how that reflects my moral character as being loose or “bitchy” as you put it. In addition, my best friends are guys. If you can’t handle meeting a girl who is comfortable around guys then I’m guessing you may have some serious confidence issues.
LMAO @ ‘poubty’ hahahahahahhahaha
Also, wtf man, you clearly fail at reading people but a major win in groundless, pigheaded generalizations about people
Maybe if you learned a thing or two about how people actually worked then you wouldn’t be such a misogynist because a worthwhile girl would spot you at a distance and RUNNNNN
@Milo: Apparently, it didn’t work for you, either. There’s no space in “didn’t.”
However, concerning the article, these pointers definitely seem as though they should be one of the most obvious things in the world; alas, as you said, guys think with the wrong head. About the only thing going through their mind when a woman talks to them, particularly a physically attractive one, is “she’s got tits, she’s got ass, and if I play my cards right, I could tap that by tonight.”
THERE IS NO B IN POUT! It says College Times at the top of the page. Act like you have a college education! Spell check didn`t work?